There is lot of advice available on every topic. With this in view if you really want to know, whose advice should follow, keep thoughts below in mind:
- You should listen to the people who had what you desire and had gone through the stage you are currently in.
- Choose your guide very diligently. Your success will depend on it.
- Once you find your ideal guide, listen to the person very carefully.
- After learning as much as possible, next step is to discern on the information and follow what looks right to you.
- Ultimately you should always listen to yourself only.
For finding how to select your guide please leave the comment on this blog. I will communicate based on your question.