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Perception At First Encounter

It is very common for your brain to make a judgment on other people based on the first impression and them in certain category in your brain. Then your behavior or interaction towards that person is based on that. It is not your fault that brain decides that way. It is based on the past experiences you have. Brain receives thousands bits of information every moment and it puts them into different categories based on past experience, before you react and response to information.

If person you are meeting first time, your brain will decide based on:

• How that person is dressed.
• His accent.
• Way he walks.
• General appearance.
• Sometimes race, gender.etc

There is no specific reason for this except quick filing system of your brain. This is done to stop it from overloading and fail, just like a computer hard drive.

So that you don’t become the target of someone else’s brain judgment you must do the following:

Dress appropriately.
Be a pleasant personality.
Wear a smile.
Make eye contact.
Firm handshake.
Be attentive to what other person says and so on.

It will give you fighting chance as far as first impression is concerned. It is part success principles. Good first impression perception will help you in whatever goal you want to accomplish.

Here Nihraka gives you her opinion about how to make good first impression:

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Creating The Happy Feelings

Once in a while you may not feel happy. There is nothing to worry about. You can become happy very quickly and here is how:

Let us start first with finding out what happens when you are happy:

• You may be humming tune of song you like.
• You feel a spring in your feet during walking.
• There is big smile on your face.
• You exuberating lot of enthusiasm.
• Your eyes look as if they are full of life.

Now you defined what you do when you are happy. Mind and human body so much connected that if you alter one the other will respond. So if you are not happy, change your physiology. Do the things you do when you are happy and you feelings will change to happiness.

So when you feel down, do this:

Hum a song.
Walk as if you have spring in feet.
• When you are talking to someone light up your eyes with excitement.
Wear a smile on your face.
Show an enthusiasm in everything you do.

Soon you will start feeling happy.

Here is another person’s view point on how to be happy:

As always if you need any further assistance please email me at makeurdreamsareality@gmail.com. I will be happy to respond. You may also leave a comment. I will always read and do my best to answer.

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