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Failing Can Also Lead To Success

Sometimes it seems like that bad things keep happening to you. They are not happening because Universe is victimizing you. It feels like there is conspiracy against you. But if you look at the lives all famous people they became great only after overcoming the situations they were in.

Alexander Graham Bell, Steve Jobs and Donald Trump all have to go through bad circumstances in their lives before they overcame the setbacks and became successful. People, who overcome their misfortunes, became very successful. They all became very rich and successful after their financial trauma.

“Every failure has at its root the seed of some future success.” Napoleon Hill

“Why You Will Fail To Have A Great Career” YouTube video by Larry Smith gives his opinion on failing and success:

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Mistakes Are Results Of Your Action And Are Needed To Succeed

Some time when you make a decision and take an action, you may fail. Don’t get into despair and feel bad about it. Instead consider it as what it is. Consider it as a proof that you found one more way it won’t work. Mr. Thomas Edison when tried to invent a light bulb failed thousand times and every time he failed he said he found successfully another way it won’t work. He did not consider his failure of experiment as his failure. In end he became successful. If you fail in anything try again; chances are that you will succeed. Don’t ever give up. You may stumble and fall down on the way to success, so long you get up one more time you will be successful.

Only reason anyone fails anytime is when they give up trying.

These people would not become so successful if they had given up. Famous failures in our history are depicted in this YouTube video below:

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When Attitude Is Right Facts Don’t Count

To understand this, let us consider what is called fact. Facts are merely opinions, which someone believes as facts. The people see the circumstances as facts based on their perception. Our brain believes the circumstances as facts based on its previous experience or available current data.

Suppose you go to a doctor. He asks history of sickness. He guesses what might be ailing you based on information you provided. Let us say you went to him because of hives all over the body. During history you told him you ate spaghetti and meat balls and you started to get hives. He believed you told him fact and he assumed you are allergic to either spaghetti or meat balls. Even you did not know that chef had used the pan for cooking your dish, was used before for warming clams dish. There was little bit of clam sauce left in it. So when prepared spaghetti and meat ball for you, the clam sauce left over in pan gave you the allergic reaction. In the mean time you told doctor the facts as you knew and he concluded based on the information you provided. It was his opinion that you are allergic to either spaghetti or meat balls, which he believed as fact. Now consider this both you and doctor, both were stating the facts, at least to the best of your knowledge, but in reality both were stating opinions based on your belief. Opinions don’t matter. So one should not believe even if things look different, instead should form any opinion only after collecting all information and then analyzing them.

So keep an open mind till you get all information and discern that it is correct information before believing it to be fact. That is attitude you should have approaching any situation. Then there will be no setbacks in your journey to succeed. This is also a success principle if mastered properly by conscious effort and incorporated in your subconscious mind as unconscious competence, will enhance your capabilities to succeed.

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Video below explains how our brain decides to make what we see as facts:

Negative Emotions Don’t Worry Be Happy

When you feel broken down that is the time stay consistent with your efforts. It feels bad. Look like everything you do to better your life goes on the wayside. In spite of your trying so hard you are getting nowhere.

My mentor said, “If you look at the current situation you are in, 10 years from now it will seem insignificant. Then you will feel happy looking back and say it was not that bad. So when you are in tough spot like that, open champagne now and be happy. Universe will resolve your situation”. Boy O Boy was he right! I have been in similar situations plenty of time and every times his word proved him right.

Why is that? Before I go into explaining the reason, here is another quote to give you an idea. “A fish does not turn back till it hits its nose on the stone bank of river.” When you are hit with b ad situation again and again, because universe keep giving you more of same, you reach a point that you can not accept it any more. This is when you get AHA moment and start picking the pieces together. Your desperation turns into an action. Do not give up at that time. You have already fallen as low as you can. Only thing that can happen is upward from now on. If you get up and take responsibility than universe will get out of your way. You will definitely succeed now. Most of people give up at this point and that is why they fail. You have to become determined to succeed, because that is what differentiates between losers and winners. Psych yourself by telling that you are a winner. You are a champion. You will see a change in you which will create circumstances, events and bring people in your life. Universe will support you just because you put forth an effort.

See video below for real life desperate situations:

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