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Listen To Succeed

Do not be ready to answer before the other person stops speaking. Not only it is a bad manner, but how would you know what the other person is going to say if you don’t give him a chance to finish. When you do like this, you are actually not listening at all. You are too busy thinking what to say next and in most cases, you have no idea, because you are too busy planning on what to say next. If earlier you are the one, who has asked the question and by not waiting to get answer, you are defeating the purpose of asking. May be person you asked the question, was answering the way to help you to reach your goal. Now you lost the chance of getting a good answer to particular situation.

If you are like that, my suggestion to you is “BE IN PRESENT MOMENT” and “PAY ATTENTION TO THE PERSON WHO IS SPEAKING.” Follow 80/20 rule, i.e. 80% listening and 20% speaking, that too for asking the right question. If you do that it will help you succeed in any goal you have.

In YouTube video “Three ways to improve communication skills” Brian Tracy explains how to better communicator by listening:

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Smile And Be Thankful

What you experience in your life depends upon what you are paying attention to. Life is mixture of both positive and negative things happening all the time. If you start paying attention to negative things you feel rush of negative things in your life all the time. It makes you feel as if life is falling apart. You feel helpless. On the other hand if you start looking at the positive things happening in your life which are going right. Soon you will start seeing more of good things in your life. You will observe a chain of circumstances indicating more of positive things coming in forefront and negativity will start reducing.

My suggestion is look for positive things as you go on your life journey.Then smile and be thankful to the Universe for the good things you see. Your life will improve tremendously.

A YouTube video – “Positive thoughts” by Marie Forleo gives insight on gratitude:

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Pay Attention And Be In The Present

Almost everyone keeps thinking about what happened in their life in the past. They keep themselves in rut all the time because of that way of thinking. Let us think realistically, you cannot change what happened to you in the past. It is already passed. You cannot time travel to past and correct. It only happens in the movies. It is beyond your control. So let us lay it to rest and step forward in our lives.

As far as future is concerned it is beyond your radar at the current time. You cannot leap forward and change it to make it better for you in the future. Though you can make it better in future if you plan ahead for future at the current time. That only leaves us a choice of understanding and changing our present situations.

Since we mostly worry about our past and future and spend most of thinking time being miserable with the same feeling. To improve our lives we need to concentrate on our present. We should pay our one hundred percent attention to our present condition and take steps to correct whatever we need to change our outlook. Once we modify our thinking from living in the past and be in the present, we enable a wave of changes in our current life and thereby also positively impact our future.

So to be the best you can be, live in present to make your FUTURE BRIGHT.

Smart tips – Enjoy the present moment by Dr. Bob Uslander’s video have his on the subject as follows:

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