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Perpetual Victim Mentality People

People who consider themselves as victims all the time should also be aware of so that they do not hinder your success. These people think themselves as perpetual victims. They look at their own circumstances and mistakes and find someone else, like their boss, their parents, teachers or friends to blame for it, to be in their life. These people once you recognize them should be avoided from your existence especially you are unable to help them. Once you are on the look for them you should be able to spot them.

Alternatively, listen to such a victim and offer to help. But make it very clear to victim that he or she need to correct their thinking and stop blaming everyone else and take ownership of things happening in their life. Do it as delicately as you can.

A YouTube video “Dealing with a “Victim Mentality”: Emotional Freedom in Action” by Judith Orloff MD:

 


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Dealing With Consistent Negativity So That It Does Not Destroys Your Success

Some people are always upset with one thing or other in their life. They are suspicious of everything in their life and associate the event with negative twist they can come up with. Such people destroy their relationship. Their negativity sucks the life out of any good relationship. Even when everything may be perfectly alright they will find something wrong. They are responsible for their own misery.

My suggestion is keep them away from your life. That does not mean that I am suggesting that if you have someone in your own family or someone you really care about abandon him or her. In that case it is your responsibility to change that person’s negativity. It will take time but if done in small step to avoid resistance from their sub-conscious mind it is feasible. First understand where the negativity is stemming from. Then ask questions to clarify. Finally get them involved by asking how will they correct what is wrong? Open a dialog and make them realize that everyone is not against them. There are people who care about them.

Use your positive energy for creating good where it may be possible.

A YouTube video – “How to deal with negative people” by Paul from Capstone Publishing gives a perspective on such negative people:

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Avoid People Who Always Feel Jealous Of Others

Some people are never happy with what they achieve themselves. They are suffering from plague called jealousy. They never feel happy even when good things happen in their life.

If you achieve something in your life and progress better than them, it makes them very unhappy. Their reasoning is that if anything good is happening it should happen in their life. They generate very negative vibrations.

My suggestion is if you have someone like that in your life stay clear of that person. They are nothing but a heap of negative vibrations.

A YouTube video “Soul Connection 34 – Dealing with jealousy and jealous people – Sr Shivani (English)” gives a different opinion on jealousy and how you should respond to it:

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