Achieving Happiness

We all want happiness. We keep on not getting it, Why is it so? Let us discuss all points and see how can we try to resolve the sticking issues on the topic?

Happiness can be defined as feeling of delight and peace with yourself and with others. You just feel blessed. People also feel happy when they achieve certain goals in their life and accomplish things like getting married to the person they love. Make a family with children of their own.

As we get things we want, we start thinking of the things we want to own and achieve thinking that is going to make us happy. Unfortunately that starts a vicious cycle of unhappiness instead. Then we start thinking how can we get out of our responsibility to our own family and children. We start looking for excuses to blame the whole world around us. We start manipulating the normal conversation of our loved ones and start blaming them for everything so that we can set us free of our doing by breaking up. This is fault of our ingrown attitudes the way our life has taught us from previous experiences. We start forcing our will on our spouses or friends making us look like we are only correct person and always others are to be blamed. In your heart you will always know that you are wrong. Who are we kidding? GOD doesn’t look at this behavior favorably. HE then creates circumstances, opportunities and brings the people in our lives, which may look to us as right people for the moment, actually end up giving us more grief and un-happiness in our lives.

A best course of action according to what I know is that we should introspect us. Find what our actions and reactions in life are doing to us. Take responsibility for our behavior instead of living life of mysticism, in which we blame others. Play understanding game by putting yourself in other person’s shoe. When it dawns on us that maybe we can be wrong. Then be human and own your mistakes and correct them.
Love, happiness and bliss in life don’t come by triggering your spouse to react and making them look like they are at fault. It comes in your life by doing right things for you, your spouse and children, and family as a whole. Treat the others in the way you want them to treat you.

Love and happiness are very contagious. Give them open heartedly and without any stipulations or conditions. GOD will rewards you handsomely for doing right things. GOD may have delay in delivering your bliss but it will come if you are open to receive it. When you are blaming others for everything, you surely are responsible for creating that situation(Introspect). So be responsible for your actions and do the right thing. Your happiness depends upon it.

Three tips to a happy successful marriage YouTube video:

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Take Responsibility For What Is In Your Life

We the humans have been trained to blame someone else or circumstances throughout our lives. We have blamed everyone else in the existence for whatever bad things happen to us. If somebody becomes alcoholic, they say that their parents or their friends were alcoholics or they became so desperate that they had to resort to drinking. That is why they started drinking and became alcoholic. Idea is they blame whole universe and their mother to be responsible for the bad habit they cultivated themselves. This is called mysticism. If they wanted, they could have easily chosen to take responsibility for the bad habit they were developing and made a decision to not continue it. At the least they could have made decision to keep in moderation and then slowly stopped it in near future.

But that could have happened if they had decided to take responsibility for their action in their own life. Their life would have a very positively affected by their decision. It could be any bad habit not necessarily the alcoholism. I am Just talking about anything that ends up destroying your life, your dreams.

Here is very easy solution for all this:

Stop blaming others for things happening in your life.
Take responsibility for everything in your life.
• Once you know and understand that you have done this thing to yourself it is easy thereafter.
• Now you don’t like what is happening in your life and you are responsible for it.
Make a decision to change all that what is wrong and go for it.
• Since you are person responsible. You made it happen. You have all the power to change it.
• There is nothing in this universe to stop you from straightening your life.
• Remember you are in control.
• It is your life and you are captain of your ship. You wreck it or steer it on to beautiful resort.

With best wishes for your success in your dream life!

Oprah on taking responsibility for your life has the same view in this 2 minute video:

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