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Don’t Be Judgmental

When a person makes a judgment, it based on facts, objectives and discernment. But when judgment is based on criticism not on facts it is called being a judgmental. Judgmental person is very quick to draw conclusion. That is due to fact that person did not take time to listen to the facts and discern. There is lack of communication and conclusion drawn will never be correct.

So if you want to make right decision take time to collect factual information and discern so that you don’t make wrong decisions in your life. In this way you will hurt anyone else’s progress and at the same time avoid taking a wrong path yourself. Being Judgmental is toxic to your happiness.

A YouTube video “Judgment – Why Happiness Is Impossible For You” by Leo from Actualized.org dissects judgment:

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Be Around The People Who Love, Care And Accept You The Way You Are

People are too much happy to help so that you can change according to what they think you should be like instead of accepting you for what you are. All persons should be open to change. Decision they should be made by you on when to change and what to change. Change should not be forced upon you. You should always make an informed decision to change based on your own aspirations. People need to understand that you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped.

When you treat the people with due respect for their feelings and treat them as complete without any reservations, respect you and recognize your good qualities. Then they will change themselves to imitate your good point. Change like this is always going to better for both parties concerned.

So let us not force any changes on anyone instead show them by example how you are making a change in you and what the results of that change are. Changes made this way will be more acceptable to everyone. Then and only then we can change the world to better place.

“Motivate, Inspire And Lead Others By Example” By Bobby Flay Fit tells how to make changes in others by example:

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You Are The Champion

There are plenty of negative people in this world who have nothing better to do with their life than to put other people down. They hurt you most when you are the most vulnerable. Just keep your eyes on them. Don’t let them drag you down the road to failure.

In situations like that just remember GOD does not create any misfits. Every Human mind is a mind of champion. Since all humans are created in the image of GOD HIMSELF you have powers bestowed by GOD in you. All you have to do is connect to the Almighty GOD and bid his calling for which HE created you. Set your mind to find your role in this universe and start your journey for fulfillment of your life purpose. You have great happiness waiting for you.

“You are a Champion – Do Whatever it takes”
YouTube video is enlightening:

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Make Conscious Choices To Be A Happy Person

Ralph Waldo Emerson said: “For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.”

So what you rather have, happiness or anger choice is yours? In any situation there is always an alternative and it is up to the individual to make a choice. No one is controlling, but the inner blocks you have already in your sub-conscious mind. If you really want to happy take conscious charge of your mind. Break those blocks one at a time till you are ready to make right choices. Do small changes at a time so that your sub-conscious mind does not feel threaten with the changes your are installing. Soon you can be much happier person.

“Conscious choice to be happy”
a YouTube video by Dana Earhart Litif is good example:

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Positive Thinking Translates Into Happy Life

Imagine if you consistently looked at the life in positivity, you will be able to see opportunities where other folks see negative circumstances. If you stay positive, it will push you through hard times and keep your life on track to success.

Positive attitude acts like a beacon to bring in your life circumstances, people and events which will make your life happy and successful in more ways than you can imagine. It will make you forge ahead and achieve your goals, where other people struggle and spiral in negativity.

“50 Positive Thoughts To Live An Awesome Life!” A YouTube video is a good start in positive thinking:

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How to Create Happiness

Bring back happiness in your life. Remember when you were a child. When you experienced anything for first time, you were amazed at everything you saw. You expressed happiness at every new thing that your life presented. You were not afraid of anything at all. To attain same kind of qualitative happiness you need to revert back to thinking like a child and wonder at the experience life is putting you through. Look at the simplest of things with the eyes of the child you were and you will be surprised to see amount of happiness Universe will provide you.

Caution: Be a child like not child……ish, that is the key. May your exploration like a child make you happiest person in the WORLD!

Kid Explain the Science Of Happiness:

Happiness Unlimited -19 – by Sister Shivani You tube video gives another view of happiness:

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Learning The Life Lessons

People keep getting into relationship same kind again and again. They wonder why they are being put through same circumstances again and again.

The reason for that is the Universe is trying to teach you certain things which will make you understand the purpose of your life. The reason you were born. Instead of getting upset with circumstances you should learn from them. You have to study the circumstances and elevate yourself from them and not listen to excuses or explanations everyone is giving to you.

All matters is, not what comes at you but how you handle it.Key is to not to react but respond. Learn to express your feelings. There is no such thing as bad feeling. You will start awakening to the lessons Universe(GOD) is exposing you. If you become aware of such life lessons and then you consciously respond. You will have success beyond believe. Your life will become happy and satisfying to you. Everyone comes to this world with a purpose and you shall find it. Listen to your feelings. It is not always black and white answers to every situation. If you try and understand why of circumstances, you will find the purpose of your life.

“Everything Happens for a Reason”
YouTube Video by CrnaLisia gives very fine presentation of what I am talking about:

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Achieving Happiness

We all want happiness. We keep on not getting it, Why is it so? Let us discuss all points and see how can we try to resolve the sticking issues on the topic?

Happiness can be defined as feeling of delight and peace with yourself and with others. You just feel blessed. People also feel happy when they achieve certain goals in their life and accomplish things like getting married to the person they love. Make a family with children of their own.

As we get things we want, we start thinking of the things we want to own and achieve thinking that is going to make us happy. Unfortunately that starts a vicious cycle of unhappiness instead. Then we start thinking how can we get out of our responsibility to our own family and children. We start looking for excuses to blame the whole world around us. We start manipulating the normal conversation of our loved ones and start blaming them for everything so that we can set us free of our doing by breaking up. This is fault of our ingrown attitudes the way our life has taught us from previous experiences. We start forcing our will on our spouses or friends making us look like we are only correct person and always others are to be blamed. In your heart you will always know that you are wrong. Who are we kidding? GOD doesn’t look at this behavior favorably. HE then creates circumstances, opportunities and brings the people in our lives, which may look to us as right people for the moment, actually end up giving us more grief and un-happiness in our lives.

A best course of action according to what I know is that we should introspect us. Find what our actions and reactions in life are doing to us. Take responsibility for our behavior instead of living life of mysticism, in which we blame others. Play understanding game by putting yourself in other person’s shoe. When it dawns on us that maybe we can be wrong. Then be human and own your mistakes and correct them.
Love, happiness and bliss in life don’t come by triggering your spouse to react and making them look like they are at fault. It comes in your life by doing right things for you, your spouse and children, and family as a whole. Treat the others in the way you want them to treat you.

Love and happiness are very contagious. Give them open heartedly and without any stipulations or conditions. GOD will rewards you handsomely for doing right things. GOD may have delay in delivering your bliss but it will come if you are open to receive it. When you are blaming others for everything, you surely are responsible for creating that situation(Introspect). So be responsible for your actions and do the right thing. Your happiness depends upon it.

Three tips to a happy successful marriage YouTube video:

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Creating The Happy Feelings

Once in a while you may not feel happy. There is nothing to worry about. You can become happy very quickly and here is how:

Let us start first with finding out what happens when you are happy:

• You may be humming tune of song you like.
• You feel a spring in your feet during walking.
• There is big smile on your face.
• You exuberating lot of enthusiasm.
• Your eyes look as if they are full of life.

Now you defined what you do when you are happy. Mind and human body so much connected that if you alter one the other will respond. So if you are not happy, change your physiology. Do the things you do when you are happy and you feelings will change to happiness.

So when you feel down, do this:

Hum a song.
Walk as if you have spring in feet.
• When you are talking to someone light up your eyes with excitement.
Wear a smile on your face.
Show an enthusiasm in everything you do.

Soon you will start feeling happy.

Here is another person’s view point on how to be happy:

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Gratitude

Be thankful for anything that happens in your life. GOD (Waheguru Ji) has given us plenty of things to be thankful for. It is nature of universe that whatever makes us happy, it gives more of the same. Human mind is strong transmitter of vibrations. It is also a best receiver of vibrations that is available in this universe. Universe (Nature, GOD, Almighty or WHOSOEVER you believe in) send you back same vibrations, which you put in front of IT. So send good thought vibrations to IT and IT will return ten folds back to you. This means that whatever happens in your life is caused by you. You are responsible for both good things and bad things happening in your life. Then why not change things around. I want to empower you. Think about this, if you caused bad things in your life, it is with same ease you can change them and make it good things appear in it.

Here is what I would suggest. Start by giving gratitude prayers just for few minutes before you sleep and after you wake up. If you do it consistently you will start seeing more and more of good things happening in your life. Before you know things will come and happen that you can even think of. Lucky streaks will be part of you existence.

You could be thankful for lot of things:

• For air you breathe, no one can more than few moments without it and it is GOD given free item.
• For water, if you consider at cellular or intracellular levels, you made of 99% of it.
• For having a family and children giving you fulfilling life.
• For having good friends
• For giving you internet so you can be in touch with like minded people all over the world.
• And so on, your imagination is only limiting factor or not!

So let us be thankful and give gratitude daily and make our lives more happy and fulfilling.

Here are some examples of gratitude giving things in our life in video:

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