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Belief is the most important part of achieving success. It is true that to achieve success you have to complete certain goals so that you can have a momentum to make your dreams manifested. For getting these goals you should believe that you can do it. Believing is very critical to your success. Your immediate goals can be completed if you believe really and truthfully that you can do it. As you complete small goals it gives you confidence, which makes you take action and you achieve bigger goals. That creates a momentum which helps to reach your dreams.

For that your immediate goals should be big enough to excite you and small enough so that you can achieve it. This way you can believe that you will be able to complete your goal by reasonable increase in your effort.

“How to achieve your goals: Smart goal setting”
a YouTube Video by Funk Roberts gives a good overview of goal setting and creating a belief:

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Fear Is Nothing But Just An Illusion

Definition of Fear is – “False evidence appearing real.”

Fear can be very debilitating, paralyzing and scary. It can take away our power. It can make us think about unwanted things in our life. It is also absence of love in our lives. All these factors are basic reasons.

We are afraid of things and fear from them because we don’t know about them. When we fear in any situation there are at least 9 alternative options for doing the same thing. Reason we end up being fearful is because we do not explore the alternatives to our situation.

In any case there is another thing 95% of times things we fear most never happen. So our fear in most cases is baseless. It is because of blocks in our sub-conscious mind from previous experiences or from what our parents, teachers, or social structure we are part of, told us, about the way things are suppose to happen. But these blocks can stop you in tracks and derail you from achieving your goals in life.

These blocks can be overcome. In my opinion there is never a thing to be fearful. Whenever you are afraid, get all the information about that situation and discern. You will find an alternative in which you will not be afraid and can continue to achieve whatever you wanted to do.
A YouTube video – “Fear” a motivational video gives some insights into fear:

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Goal Setting

When we set goals for ourselves we tend to have such a high goals that it becomes very difficult to attain them. In one of earlier post I said the money is of no consideration when setting goals. That is true as for as learning to dream. It is also OK to have big dream as a final dream. But to achieve that big dream you have to build up momentum to motivate you to reach that BIG DREAM. That means you have to achieve small dreams first, just like steps on the ladder. Only way you can reach the upper most steps by going over each step one at a time. Every time you succeed in one small goal, it takes you closer to the top most steps. It becomes very easy if you follow the simple suggestion I have for you given below:

Consider that life is a game. You are a player as well as judge of the contestants. Because you are judge, you have authority to change the rules of the game. Set the bar low. Make rules in a way that you can easily win. Use this authority of yours when setting goals of your life. Make them such that you can win every time with ease. Every time you win, it makes your mind think that you are great achiever. Whatever you can make your mind believe, that is what you will become. So you will become a great achiever and will reach your ultimate goal very quickly. It does not matter how farfetched your final goal may seem at the current time.

Here is video stressing importance of setting small achievable goals:

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Feel Blissfully Happy

First goal humans have in their lives is to make enough money so they can support themselves and their families. Once they reach there, they want to have a good status in the society. Next destination is recognition by their peers in the society. They want to leave a legacy, whereby their name is left behind and people remember them. When such an esteemed person is asked what they really wanted most in their life, answer always was, “To be happy.” So supreme goal of everyone’s life is being blissfully happy not wealth, status and recognition.

Here is my take on the situation. We are all going in life wrong way. Path which everyone follows to reach their ultimate goal is incorrect. Since all those material things are not real goal, we should change our thinking. I am not advocating that we should not achieve material things. They are necessary for our existence in this society. They are the basis of conformity in our society. In addition, we strive to do something which will make us happy and at peace with ourselves. If you achieve happiness in your life, the other things will automatically come to you. We do not need to go through sequence we follow every day. If we achieve happiness and contentment in our lives we will attract material things also.

Way to do it is:

• By being able to serve others. Among Sikh religion it is most valued quality.
Solve someone else’s situation and be a part of other’s happiness.
Help somebody in need. That person’s happiness and thankfulness will catapult you into sea of happiness.
• Find something you always like to do, like things which also add to your happiness. These will make you feel happy and get enough resources to make a good living. You will be able to take care of your responsibilities, be happy and you will enjoy the process. It will not feel like a work.
Get out of your comfort zone. Don’t just conform to society.

Ultimate achievement in life is to be happy. So why waste your short stay in this universe concentrating on things which in the end do not count toward your success. Even if you are in a really bad situation, think about how can you turn it around and make it a positive experience. Find out what is your calling. If you try with sense of how it can be of service to fellow humans. You will start enjoying your journey in life.

Principle of service to others is expressed in free kitchens run by Sikhs all over the world. Extreme example of selfless service shown in the YouTube video below:

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