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Respond Not React

Most of the people react to the stimulus of the situation. That way they don’t make a right decision. They do not collect the right information to make a correct decision. Decisions made in this way can never be correct.

My suggestions in this regards is you should try and understand the reason behind the situation. If you understand that you might understand that situation looks the way it appears because someone cared in their own way for you. Understand the feelings behind the act of others before you react. Then and only then you will be able to respond to any situation correctly.
Do not jeopardize your success by reacting instead solidify it by responding.

A YouTube video “Learn to respond, not react …9ROUGH DAY) [2/7/11/Vlog] explains the need to respond and not react:

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Don’t Be Judgmental

When a person makes a judgment, it based on facts, objectives and discernment. But when judgment is based on criticism not on facts it is called being a judgmental. Judgmental person is very quick to draw conclusion. That is due to fact that person did not take time to listen to the facts and discern. There is lack of communication and conclusion drawn will never be correct.

So if you want to make right decision take time to collect factual information and discern so that you don’t make wrong decisions in your life. In this way you will hurt anyone else’s progress and at the same time avoid taking a wrong path yourself. Being Judgmental is toxic to your happiness.

A YouTube video “Judgment – Why Happiness Is Impossible For You” by Leo from Actualized.org dissects judgment:

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When Attitude Is Right Facts Don’t Count

To understand this, let us consider what is called fact. Facts are merely opinions, which someone believes as facts. The people see the circumstances as facts based on their perception. Our brain believes the circumstances as facts based on its previous experience or available current data.

Suppose you go to a doctor. He asks history of sickness. He guesses what might be ailing you based on information you provided. Let us say you went to him because of hives all over the body. During history you told him you ate spaghetti and meat balls and you started to get hives. He believed you told him fact and he assumed you are allergic to either spaghetti or meat balls. Even you did not know that chef had used the pan for cooking your dish, was used before for warming clams dish. There was little bit of clam sauce left in it. So when prepared spaghetti and meat ball for you, the clam sauce left over in pan gave you the allergic reaction. In the mean time you told doctor the facts as you knew and he concluded based on the information you provided. It was his opinion that you are allergic to either spaghetti or meat balls, which he believed as fact. Now consider this both you and doctor, both were stating the facts, at least to the best of your knowledge, but in reality both were stating opinions based on your belief. Opinions don’t matter. So one should not believe even if things look different, instead should form any opinion only after collecting all information and then analyzing them.

So keep an open mind till you get all information and discern that it is correct information before believing it to be fact. That is attitude you should have approaching any situation. Then there will be no setbacks in your journey to succeed. This is also a success principle if mastered properly by conscious effort and incorporated in your subconscious mind as unconscious competence, will enhance your capabilities to succeed.

As always if you need any further assistance please email me at makeurdreamsareality@gmail.com. I will be happy to respond. You may also leave a comment. I will always read and do my best to answer.

Video below explains how our brain decides to make what we see as facts:

Success Principles

Success Principle
• Best way to succeed is to think what you want to succeed in and follow through your thought with action.
Do not wait too long to make a plan of action. If you wait for perfect plan of action, it is not going to remain perfect by the time you give it a finishing touch.
• Fact is the dynamics of any situation change with passing of time. That is what will make any plan imperfect and lacking in so many ways.
• Best route to success is to discern on any situation.
Act immediately on the best possible plan you can make at that moment.
Amend the plan as you proceed and see the possible result at that time.
• Any plan of action toward achieving your goal is better than no action at all.

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