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Be Around The People Who Love, Care And Accept You The Way You Are

People are too much happy to help so that you can change according to what they think you should be like instead of accepting you for what you are. All persons should be open to change. Decision they should be made by you on when to change and what to change. Change should not be forced upon you. You should always make an informed decision to change based on your own aspirations. People need to understand that you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped.

When you treat the people with due respect for their feelings and treat them as complete without any reservations, respect you and recognize your good qualities. Then they will change themselves to imitate your good point. Change like this is always going to better for both parties concerned.

So let us not force any changes on anyone instead show them by example how you are making a change in you and what the results of that change are. Changes made this way will be more acceptable to everyone. Then and only then we can change the world to better place.

“Motivate, Inspire And Lead Others By Example” By Bobby Flay Fit tells how to make changes in others by example:

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Why Law Of Attraction Does Not Work?

Law Of Attraction says whatever vibration you send out to the universe, Universe turns around and sends you same kind of vibrations back to you. But most of people who tried Law Of Attraction swear it does not work. There is nothing wrong with Law Of Attraction, it works all the time. It is as true as jumping off the roof, You surely going to fall down. It makes no difference whether you believe in it or not.

Fact is most individual who try the Law Of Attraction, self sabotage their own success. Less than 2% people are ever successful in it. Process is called unconscious sabotage. Reasons people do not succeed in it, because they:

Quit after a setback.
Procrastinate.
Don’t make a decision.
Don’t follow thru on their decision. All decision must be followed through within 48 hours with some action toward completion of a step for which the decision was made.
Make bad decisions without thinking.
Attract people to them, who take them off-track.

Unconscious sabotage makes you think plenty of reasons in addition to the given above to justify why Law Of Attraction did not work for you. It is your subconscious mind who is doing this to you. All you need to do is to be aware of what is stopping you then can eliminate that hurdle. How i is done? tThat is going to be topic for another post. Visit my website regularly so that you do not miss that answer.

Here is Sonia Ricotti’s view on the Law Of Attraction in An Inspirational Video 1 – The Law Of Attraction below:

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Take Responsibility For What Is In Your Life

We the humans have been trained to blame someone else or circumstances throughout our lives. We have blamed everyone else in the existence for whatever bad things happen to us. If somebody becomes alcoholic, they say that their parents or their friends were alcoholics or they became so desperate that they had to resort to drinking. That is why they started drinking and became alcoholic. Idea is they blame whole universe and their mother to be responsible for the bad habit they cultivated themselves. This is called mysticism. If they wanted, they could have easily chosen to take responsibility for the bad habit they were developing and made a decision to not continue it. At the least they could have made decision to keep in moderation and then slowly stopped it in near future.

But that could have happened if they had decided to take responsibility for their action in their own life. Their life would have a very positively affected by their decision. It could be any bad habit not necessarily the alcoholism. I am Just talking about anything that ends up destroying your life, your dreams.

Here is very easy solution for all this:

Stop blaming others for things happening in your life.
Take responsibility for everything in your life.
• Once you know and understand that you have done this thing to yourself it is easy thereafter.
• Now you don’t like what is happening in your life and you are responsible for it.
Make a decision to change all that what is wrong and go for it.
• Since you are person responsible. You made it happen. You have all the power to change it.
• There is nothing in this universe to stop you from straightening your life.
• Remember you are in control.
• It is your life and you are captain of your ship. You wreck it or steer it on to beautiful resort.
IT IS ENTIRELY UP TO YOU

With best wishes for your success in your dream life!

Oprah on taking responsibility for your life has the same view in this 2 minute video:

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Does Practice Make You Perfect?

The old saying is, “Practice makes you perfect.” There is truth in proceeding statement. Yes practicing the same thing again and again will make you proficient in whatever you are doing. But it may not make you perfect in it. If you are practicing to do it incorrect way, it will only make you good at doing it wrong way. So it is not only important to practice, it is also imperative that you practice the correct way of doing that thing whatever you are trying to be perfect in.

So to be perfect and expert in whatever your goal is, you need to first find a perfect way doing it. Then you should practice in the correct way you found and that will make you perfect in doing it.

But in real life you need not be perfect all the time. Sometimes a little imperfection is OK, because it lets you start doing things quickly. Like you made a decision to do certain task, and took action to work on the project even though you have not come up with a perfect plan. Another reason for not waiting for perfect answer to your situation, because by the time you come up with perfect solution, the demographics of the situation change and your perfect solution to situation is not perfect any more. So in reality perfection is not that important criterion to succeed. Taking action is more important than being perfect all the time. That is corner stone in the success of most of elites of the world.They make a decision, take action and modify their plan as needed during the course of action. That is how wars were won and people achieved unbelievable success in their lives.

But practice do have a place in being able to do things like a expert as you can see in YouTube video (Practice makes perfect)below:

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