Why Your Dreams Don’t Materialize Part 1

In few posts that will follow this post, I will indulge myself into explaining the reason, behind why Law of attraction doesn’t work for lot of us. What we do wrong in realizing our dreams and how to correct it so that we can achieve them. I will explain one step per post till we go through all.

There is nothing wrong in having big dreams. All our lives we have been trained to worry about how. How we are going to achieve this? There is no way I can do this. Those are limiting factors in our thinking. What my family is going to say? There is friendly but negative voice of people surrounding us saying it is waste of time and energy. They will do their best to dissuade you from fulfilling your dreams. They will sound so good and caring. Lot of them might even be genuine and sincere about what they are saying. That is because of their own self limiting thinking.

Now here is alternative thinking on what you are facing here. Let us tackle it together. Consider dreaming and achieving are to different aspects and you need to separate them. When you are dreaming do not think about how you are going to make them a reality. If you can put how part of achieving on hold for a short little while and completely think what are you are dreaming. Imagine that you are in future and have already achieved that dream. See in your mind’s eye how your life became better because of the dream you realized. You will get excited about the dream and become motivated to take action towards completing it. This will bring thoughts in your mind and you will put forward the request to the universe through your vibrations of thought. Then universe will create circumstances, opportunities and bring to your life which will show you how part of the equation. Those things are not in your radar right now, but will appear at the right time.

To be continued ……….

Dream big just like the people in this video:

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Goal Setting

When we set goals for ourselves we tend to have such a high goals that it becomes very difficult to attain them. In one of earlier post I said the money is of no consideration when setting goals. That is true as for as learning to dream. It is also OK to have big dream as a final dream. But to achieve that big dream you have to build up momentum to motivate you to reach that BIG DREAM. That means you have to achieve small dreams first, just like steps on the ladder. Only way you can reach the upper most steps by going over each step one at a time. Every time you succeed in one small goal, it takes you closer to the top most steps. It becomes very easy if you follow the simple suggestion I have for you given below:

Consider that life is a game. You are a player as well as judge of the contestants. Because you are judge, you have authority to change the rules of the game. Set the bar low. Make rules in a way that you can easily win. Use this authority of yours when setting goals of your life. Make them such that you can win every time with ease. Every time you win, it makes your mind think that you are great achiever. Whatever you can make your mind believe, that is what you will become. So you will become a great achiever and will reach your ultimate goal very quickly. It does not matter how farfetched your final goal may seem at the current time.

Here is video stressing importance of setting small achievable goals:

As always if you need any further assistance please email me at I will be happy to respond. You may also leave a comment. I will always read and do my best to answer.

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