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Sweet Spot In Goal Making

To achieve your goal quickly it must be in your sweet spot. That is what I was told by my mentor. What is sweet spot? Any goal which is big enough to excite you but at the same time small enough to achieve with a little additional effort. Remember it must also require a little extra umph. That goal is in your sweet spot. Having goals like these will set you up on the road to success. Every time you achieve goal like this you will be motivated to achieve more goals.

So to be successful you must start with small goals which are in your sweet spot. Doing so will catapult you into reaching your ultimate goal. You will enjoy the process. You will put in lot of work, but it will not feel like a work. Success will exude out of your every action. There will nothing that will be able to stop you.

Natalie Sisson gave this explanation for creating a sweet spot in business in video below:

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Why Your Dreams Don’t Materialize Part 1

In few posts that will follow this post, I will indulge myself into explaining the reason, behind why Law of attraction doesn’t work for lot of us. What we do wrong in realizing our dreams and how to correct it so that we can achieve them. I will explain one step per post till we go through all.

There is nothing wrong in having big dreams. All our lives we have been trained to worry about how. How we are going to achieve this? There is no way I can do this. Those are limiting factors in our thinking. What my family is going to say? There is friendly but negative voice of people surrounding us saying it is waste of time and energy. They will do their best to dissuade you from fulfilling your dreams. They will sound so good and caring. Lot of them might even be genuine and sincere about what they are saying. That is because of their own self limiting thinking.

Now here is alternative thinking on what you are facing here. Let us tackle it together. Consider dreaming and achieving are to different aspects and you need to separate them. When you are dreaming do not think about how you are going to make them a reality. If you can put how part of achieving on hold for a short little while and completely think what are you are dreaming. Imagine that you are in future and have already achieved that dream. See in your mind’s eye how your life became better because of the dream you realized. You will get excited about the dream and become motivated to take action towards completing it. This will bring thoughts in your mind and you will put forward the request to the universe through your vibrations of thought. Then universe will create circumstances, opportunities and bring to your life which will show you how part of the equation. Those things are not in your radar right now, but will appear at the right time.

To be continued ……….

Dream big just like the people in this video:

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Get Rid Of Clutter

We all humans habit of collecting things thinking some day we might need it. It so happens that 20 years later we still have found no use for it. It stays in our garage, basement or attic of the house collecting dust. Such things create very negative energy in your life. It is important that you understand clutter is nothing but something that will hinder your progress in life. Get rid of those negative vibrations.

The above thought does not apply to collectibles which increase in value over time. It is OK to collect well thought collectibles with certain value thought in mind.
It seems impossible to clean clutter. It looks such a surmountable task. Here are few suggestions to motivate you to get a handle on this situation.

• Question – How you eat an elephant? Answer – one bite at a time. Suppose you want to clean your car. If you feel it is too much to do. Start with one seat at a time. When done start with trunk. Soon you will see everything in the car. Same way things can be cleaned in the garage or any room in the house.
• Anything you save should be labeled properly so that you can find it when you need it.
• Things you do not seem to find a reason to keep are junk as for as you are concerned. Get rid of them.
Make a rule and stick to it. For example if you do not use things you collected for five years and they are not increasing in value (not Collectibles), get rid of them.
Set aside a specific time and what you will clean in that time slot.
• Plan a garage sale event at least once or twice a year to monetize your clutter.
• If you have a collectible, get it appraised periodically to see if it is really a collectible and increase in value relative to your other investments.
Donate the things you don’t need.

Some tips about organizing are in this YouTube video below:

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Feel Blissfully Happy

First goal humans have in their lives is to make enough money so they can support themselves and their families. Once they reach there, they want to have a good status in the society. Next destination is recognition by their peers in the society. They want to leave a legacy, whereby their name is left behind and people remember them. When such an esteemed person is asked what they really wanted most in their life, answer always was, “To be happy.” So supreme goal of everyone’s life is being blissfully happy not wealth, status and recognition.

Here is my take on the situation. We are all going in life wrong way. Path which everyone follows to reach their ultimate goal is incorrect. Since all those material things are not real goal, we should change our thinking. I am not advocating that we should not achieve material things. They are necessary for our existence in this society. They are the basis of conformity in our society. In addition, we strive to do something which will make us happy and at peace with ourselves. If you achieve happiness in your life, the other things will automatically come to you. We do not need to go through sequence we follow every day. If we achieve happiness and contentment in our lives we will attract material things also.

Way to do it is:

• By being able to serve others. Among Sikh religion it is most valued quality.
Solve someone else’s situation and be a part of other’s happiness.
Help somebody in need. That person’s happiness and thankfulness will catapult you into sea of happiness.
• Find something you always like to do, like things which also add to your happiness. These will make you feel happy and get enough resources to make a good living. You will be able to take care of your responsibilities, be happy and you will enjoy the process. It will not feel like a work.
Get out of your comfort zone. Don’t just conform to society.

Ultimate achievement in life is to be happy. So why waste your short stay in this universe concentrating on things which in the end do not count toward your success. Even if you are in a really bad situation, think about how can you turn it around and make it a positive experience. Find out what is your calling. If you try with sense of how it can be of service to fellow humans. You will start enjoying your journey in life.

Principle of service to others is expressed in free kitchens run by Sikhs all over the world. Extreme example of selfless service shown in the YouTube video below:

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Way To Learn Is To Teach It

When anyone learns something, it is not retained very well. Reason for this is material learned is not fully internalized. It has not become a second nature to you. To achieve this one must first remember the material fully. This is done by spaced repetition as was cleared in earlier post.

Once you remember it, then it should be known so well that it becomes a second nature. That is done by teaching it. The person you should teach first is you.

Imagine that you are teaching a class full of students. Let your imagination take charge. Then regurgitate whatever you have learned in that class. Since you are teacher as well as student, ask yourself questions about what you are teaching. Then answer the question in loud enough voice so that whole class can hear it. Articulate the answers good and convert it into back and forth discussion. When you finish it you will be remembering what you were teaching extremely well. Now you have already mastered what you have learned. It is now a part of your permanent knowledge bank. Essentially you have internalized the material you have learned.

The example of learning music by internalizing by Martin Taylor, it is explained in video below:

Follow the above principle to learn anything you want. As always if you need any further assistance please email me at makeurdreamsareality@gmail.com. I will be happy to respond. You may also leave a comment. I will always read and do my best to answer.

Develop Yourself To Be A Success Magnet

Everyone wants to successful. It takes a little effort and following a system. You have to be consistent. It is tenacious nature of human mind that brings you results. Stay on course to follow the system below and in no time the success will be your bride.

The system I am suggesting has following steps:

• Read something to improve your mind every day. Alot a certain specific amount of time for this activity. Read about things you want to improve in you, something positive.
• Attend meetings, events or functions to motivate you with like minded people. Being in company of large number of like minded folks will catapult you into heightened state of excitement. You will see some AHA moments coming in your life.
• Listen to motivating audio daily.
• When you are at meetings, events and functions mingle with other people. Develop relationships. Make connections with other like minded persons. For a starter make at least one new connection at every event you go to.
• Genuinely recognize others for their achievements and get yourself recognized.
Add value to everything you do. Inspire others and think how you can add value to your life.

If you do all activities listed above, I am sure it will bring life changing opportunities in your life and soon you will attract success just like a magnet. As always if you need any further assistance please email me at makeurdreamsareality@gmail.com . I will be happy to respond. You may also leave a comment. I will always read and do my best to answer.

Here is Michael Gowans’s view on becoming success magnet:

Business Finance and Efficiency

Lot of businesses are started every year. About whooping 95% of them fail. It is not that they do not want to succeed. Most of these people are very hardworking people. They are trying their best.

Most of them fail because they do not:

  • Plan
  • Have Leadership skills
  • Product customer want
  • Proper finance cushion they need
  • Analyze the progress and adapt
  • Increase efficiencies as they go
  • Create traffic  and demand for product or service
  • Create value in customer eyes
  • Over deliver
  • Follow up and follow through
  • Make customer feel comfortable with process
  • Learn what customer really wants

Visit the links below to learn how you can start and make YOUR BUSINESS successful:

 

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