Category Archives: Happiness

The Strangest Secret

“Success is progressive realization of a worthy ideal. If a man sets a goal for his future and achieves it then he is success, otherwise he is a failure.” Earl Nightingale

Let me explain the secret in the words of Earl Nightingale who is the original speaker of The Strangest Secret audio. He says:

  • Only one out twenty people succeeds, because other nineteen had no goals. A person without a goal is like a ship without a crew, captain, map or destination. That is why such a large percentage does not reach anywhere.
  • Human race is fixed in a way not to prevent strong from winning but to prevent week from losing. That is, what is called conformity in our society?
  • We become what we think about most of the time. This is strangest secret which is behind every successful person.

Disraeli said any human being with a subtle purpose in life, must accomplish it. Nothing can stand in the way of person who will stake even his existence to fulfill his goal. Ralph Waldo Emerson said that a man is what he thinks about all day long. William James said that human can alter their lives by changing what they think. If we think certain things are real, they will become real by growing connection with us and people around us through our habits and thoughts. Believe and succeed is the secret behind every success. Sauce in this is to think about it most of the time.

People who succeed don’t believe in circumstances. They look for circumstances they want. If they can’t find they make them. A person, who is thinking about his goals and goes about getting them, will get them. Other person who has no goals and is confused about what he wants will reach nowhere. His life is going to full of failures and misery.

As you sow so shall you reap is a good axiom to clarify it further. Lets us see an example of farmer. Land does not care what farmer plants in it. It returns the crop of whatever seed is sown on it.

Human mind also works the same way. It does not care what you think. It returns plenty of same things what you are thinking. Human mind is very fertile and it invariably gives us whatever we plant in it. If it is all true, then why people don’t use their mind to be successful more. Explanation is since we got it free along with other standard equipment at birth, we place no value to it. Things which are given to us for nothing we place no value on them and things we pay money for we value. But fact everything that is worthwhile is given to us for free by the universe. Our mind, our body, our soul and all other priceless things are given to us for free. Things we pay for are cheap. If anything breaks down we can replace them. But things we get for nothing like family, love and our body are priceless and can’t be obtained at any price. They are irreplaceable. We use our mind very little (about 10% of our ability) for the same reason.

You are what you think, because that is exactly where you wanted to be. What you are thinking now is going to be your future. It is up to you. You are in driver’s seat. Strangest secret is that human future depends upon how we use our mind for good or for bad. That is going to shape our success.

Now to be successful decide what you want. Think consistently how you can achieve it. Then work on getting it. It is that simple. In your mind’s eye see yourself what you will be doing when you reach your goal. Feel as if you are already doing it.

Here is YouTube Video on the topic:

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Feel Blissfully Happy

First goal humans have in their lives is to make enough money so they can support themselves and their families. Once they reach there, they want to have a good status in the society. Next destination is recognition by their peers in the society. They want to leave a legacy, whereby their name is left behind and people remember them. When such an esteemed person is asked what they really wanted most in their life, answer always was, “To be happy.” So supreme goal of everyone’s life is being blissfully happy not wealth, status and recognition.

Here is my take on the situation. We are all going in life wrong way. Path which everyone follows to reach their ultimate goal is incorrect. Since all those material things are not real goal, we should change our thinking. I am not advocating that we should not achieve material things. They are necessary for our existence in this society. They are the basis of conformity in our society. In addition, we strive to do something which will make us happy and at peace with ourselves. If you achieve happiness in your life, the other things will automatically come to you. We do not need to go through sequence we follow every day. If we achieve happiness and contentment in our lives we will attract material things also.

Way to do it is:

• By being able to serve others. Among Sikh religion it is most valued quality.
Solve someone else’s situation and be a part of other’s happiness.
Help somebody in need. That person’s happiness and thankfulness will catapult you into sea of happiness.
• Find something you always like to do, like things which also add to your happiness. These will make you feel happy and get enough resources to make a good living. You will be able to take care of your responsibilities, be happy and you will enjoy the process. It will not feel like a work.
Get out of your comfort zone. Don’t just conform to society.

Ultimate achievement in life is to be happy. So why waste your short stay in this universe concentrating on things which in the end do not count toward your success. Even if you are in a really bad situation, think about how can you turn it around and make it a positive experience. Find out what is your calling. If you try with sense of how it can be of service to fellow humans. You will start enjoying your journey in life.

Principle of service to others is expressed in free kitchens run by Sikhs all over the world. Extreme example of selfless service shown in the YouTube video below:

As always if you need any further assistance please email me at makeurdreamsareality@gmail.com. I will be happy to respond. You may also leave a comment. I will always read and do my best to answer.

Punjabis Wake Up To Reality around You

With all things happening in Punjab, I am appalled to see that people there are not still waking up to the reality. All our leaders are sucking blood of people by accepting bribes and doing illegal and immoral things. Why are we accepting them as our leaders? Why we did not used our electoral system to get rid of cancer which is killing our society slowly but surely. Here are some things to be considered. Educate the people as to what is really wrong. Educate them to use their voting power to get rid of leaders who are cancer of society. Bring the leaders who prove themselves worth their salt. I am sure if that happens Punjab can be number one not only in INDIA but also in world! I know it can happen. There is large enough chatter all over the world about it, but we need to discern and people need to wake up about it. Say NO to drugs,they are killing us as a community!

Here is wakeup call song from Face Book about it. Listen and discern:

As always if you need any further assistance please email me at makeurdreamsareality@gmail.com. I will be happy to respond. You may also leave a comment. I will always read and do my best to answer.

Create Your Destiny

Lesson to learn if you want to achieve your dreams is that you don’t “attract” things in your life, you when you create them; you activate the Law of Attraction. Activation brings more things in your life similar to the one you are creating. That is the reason things happen multiple times in the same way. Don’t we always say bad things happen in three’s? Because you created first bad thing and then started thinking about bad thing again which attracted more bad things to you. So to keep yourself in a lucky streak you should create good things with good vibrations. This will change your destiny in positive way.

In order to create things, you must:

Know exactly what you want. What is your chief aim?
• Have a singleness of the purpose.
Get obsessed with it.
• The feeling of definiteness will make you focus on it.
Focus will create an intense particle flow to activate it. What you need is an intense emotion focused on what you want.

This is what you need to achieve your dreams! “Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve. Thoughts are things! And powerful things at that, when mixed with definiteness of purpose, and burning desire, can be translated into riches.” Napoleon Hill

Caution, this method works for both positive as well as negative thoughts. If you do not want to create misery in your life, stay with positive thoughts only. Only good thing is if you create negative things and you realize that you don’t want it. Make a decision to change it, turn around it and covert same negative thing to a positive one. You are in control!

As always if you need any further assistance please email me at makeurdreamsareality@gmail.com. I will be happy to respond. You may also leave a comment. I will always read and do my best to answer.

Video below by Les Brown will show you how to do it. You can do it. Believe and get started. Your destiny is waiting for you! God Bless!

Secret To Success From Earle Nightingale

Cheerful expectancy and Hoping or wishing something is going to happen, are two different things. Success does not come from looking through colored glasses. When you know it is going to occur, it is only because of cheerful expectancy. It comes from having knowledge obtained by studying your field, whether it’s Internet marketing or medical field and completely immersing yourself in it. Knowledge gives you confidence. Confidence motivates you and you feel like taking action to succeed.

If you want to be an expert on anything, you have to give it at least an hour a day for reading up on it consistently. Knowledge gives you the confidence and belief to have that positive expectancy, which in turn determines your results.

Feel Good Blogging Challenge Day Seven

Topic today for me is “LAW OF ATTRACTION” Basically law of attraction states that when you think about any circumstance, you send out vibrations representing that thought to universe and in return you get back to you a similar vibration from the universe. It means like attracts like vibrations. So whatever r you put out to the universe, it turns around and sends same things back to you. It is similar to farming. What crop seed you put in ground same crop grows. If you sow wheat grains, you get wheat and if you sow Datura seeds it will grow Datura plant. One is edible and other is a poison.

No let us visualize that you get into an accident. To find why it happened to you, think what you were thinking about little while before that. If you think hard enough you will find out that you were thinking about something which gave you the same feelings which you had after accident. Thought might have come to your mind a moment before, a week before or a month before, it does not matter. Fact is you surely think about something which gave you the same feelings that you felt after accident.

Fact is universe have both kind of vibrations, positive as well as negative. To have abundance in your life, you need to replace the feelings of lack from your life. You can not eliminate the negative feeling that easy. You should start thinking about positive thoughts. Universe will match your vibrations and start sending you positive vibrations. You will start thinking more and more positive thoughts. As your ball of positive energy becomes bigger and bigger, you will start feeling the changes happening in your life. You will have abundance in your life. Feelings of lack will go away. You will be changed person.

There is lot more to law of attraction than a little explanation I gave above. That I will like to save for later blogs. If you are interested to know more please leave your contact info in comment. I will be happy to follow up through your email.

Below I have added a YouTube video with some other person’s perspective on “LAW OF ATTRACTION”

Like always please leave a comment. I appreciate your opinion on how I can serve you better. I am always ready to learn more on the subject.

Feel Good Blogging Challenge Day Three

Step By Step Guide To Be Super Happy And Healthy

Today I will give you daily routine to be happy and stay healthy.

• You should sleep by 10:30 PM your local time.
• Before you sleep spend few minutes for giving gratitude thoughts. Just say things in your life that you are thankful for.
• Get up early in AM. Remember saying “Early to bed and early to rise, make you healthy, wealthy and wise”.
• Again start your day with giving gratitude. This is all to set yourself for positive thoughts in your life.
• When you to work, enter the workplace with big smile on your face. Leave your personal situations out of workplace. This way you will start good.
Be nice to others and keep building positive feeling to make your day better and better throughout the day.
• Lunch should be approximately ½ of daily caloric intake.
• On return home spend some time with family and kids if you have.
• Dinner should be early in evening and light in calories.
• You may have juice or water or tea later on if you feel like.
• Keep repeating the sequence daily and you will get a momentum for building a positive life.
• Drinking plenty of water during whole day will keep you young looking too.

Here is another person’s perspective on exercise and healthy food choices:

 

 

I am sure this routine will work for anyone who sincerely follows it. I am here to help if you need to tweak it. Be kind to leave a comment if like the information.

Feel Good Blogging Challenge One

Feel Good Blogging Challenge Numero Uno

Hi my name is Amrik Mann. Professionally I am a Pharmacist. Recently was forced to retire by administration because of age, I feel and look like in mid forties. That is because I know how to take care of my health very well. I live in tri-state area, about 90 miles from New York City. I took this forced retirement in stride and decided that I am not going to work as a pharmacist any more. Don’t get me wrong, I still love my profession as a pharmacist. Presently my main focus is on helping other people to get into better health and live a long happy life. That is my passion.

I am doing it by helping one person at a time. My understanding is that I can scale my helping effort through internet. That is why I started blogging. Why I started blogging is an interesting story. My father is a retired Ayurvedic and Homeopathic Dr. He retired in mid 80’s when he immigrated to USA and started living with us. He was the person who never used computer in his life. He learned to use computer from my children and started writing his experiences in medicine and life. Until now he has written about 18 books (Not in English) and still continuing it. He publishes them and gives them free to poor people back home. Seeing what he is doing with his time and money inspired me to do the same. Because I have learned from what he knows as well as from my own education and experience, I am excited to help others, who are less fortunate than me.

I am writing for layman, whom most professional in medical and pharmaceutical profession are not sincerely helping and for the public at large. They do hundreds of test and over-prescribe medicine so they can cover their own but. You do not need all those things for staying healthy and happy. My aim is to provide information free or at very nominal charge to public and help as many people as I can!

Currently, I have written few blogs on success series in the same website (https://makeurdreamsareality.com). Actually my aim is to cover topics on health, wealth, motivation for success in life and ultimately blissful happiness for everyone I touch.

My message to the visitors on my web is, there is nothing you can’t achieve. All you have to do is look for information and take action to remedy the situation. There is no such thing that can’t be corrected or achieved. Information is there all over the internet all you have to do is collect, discern and take action. I will give information responsibly but ultimate responsibility still rest on their shoulders. So please discern.

Here is another perspective on happiness in the video below. Take a look and above all be happy!

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