Achieving Happiness

We all want happiness. We keep on not getting it, Why is it so? Let us discuss all points and see how can we try to resolve the sticking issues on the topic?

Happiness can be defined as feeling of delight and peace with yourself and with others. You just feel blessed. People also feel happy when they achieve certain goals in their life and accomplish things like getting married to the person they love. Make a family with children of their own.

As we get things we want, we start thinking of the things we want to own and achieve thinking that is going to make us happy. Unfortunately that starts a vicious cycle of unhappiness instead. Then we start thinking how can we get out of our responsibility to our own family and children. We start looking for excuses to blame the whole world around us. We start manipulating the normal conversation of our loved ones and start blaming them for everything so that we can set us free of our doing by breaking up. This is fault of our ingrown attitudes the way our life has taught us from previous experiences. We start forcing our will on our spouses or friends making us look like we are only correct person and always others are to be blamed. In your heart you will always know that you are wrong. Who are we kidding? GOD doesn’t look at this behavior favorably. HE then creates circumstances, opportunities and brings the people in our lives, which may look to us as right people for the moment, actually end up giving us more grief and un-happiness in our lives.

A best course of action according to what I know is that we should introspect us. Find what our actions and reactions in life are doing to us. Take responsibility for our behavior instead of living life of mysticism, in which we blame others. Play understanding game by putting yourself in other person’s shoe. When it dawns on us that maybe we can be wrong. Then be human and own your mistakes and correct them.
Love, happiness and bliss in life don’t come by triggering your spouse to react and making them look like they are at fault. It comes in your life by doing right things for you, your spouse and children, and family as a whole. Treat the others in the way you want them to treat you.

Love and happiness are very contagious. Give them open heartedly and without any stipulations or conditions. GOD will rewards you handsomely for doing right things. GOD may have delay in delivering your bliss but it will come if you are open to receive it. When you are blaming others for everything, you surely are responsible for creating that situation(Introspect). So be responsible for your actions and do the right thing. Your happiness depends upon it.

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