Monthly Archives: February 2015

Avoid Interaction With Arrogant People

People come with all kind of qualities in their personalities. Qualities which bring the negative vibes in your life because of interaction with them should be avoided and stayed away from. Just as you would avoid putting toxins in your bodies, I would prefer to keep the negative vibes of such people from my life. I will attempt to give you some ideas about qualities of such person’s one at time in future blogs.

Today’s topic is about arrogance as quality to be avoided. There is big difference between confidence and arrogance. Confidence inspires you. Confident people accept other people’s confidence in them and encourage them. It is a positive vibration.

Arrogance is quality in the people who think they always know best. They think themselves to be superior to others. They will never be happy with confidence in you because it messes with their arrogance. This is a big time negative feeling and must be avoided. Try you best to stay away from the negative people with arrogance. They will hinder your success.

“The Difference Between Confidence and Arrogance” A YouTube video by Brian Tracy diffrentiate between confidence and arrogance:

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Develop AN I Can Do Attitude

Success principle which can be vital for your success is developing “I CAN Do It” attitude. Give yourself an order as often as you can that I can do it. Then take small steps to follow the feeling as frequently as you can. Eventually it will become a habit and every time something you see or wanted to do you will start handling the task with the feeling and attitude that you can do it. You will attain that feeling permanently if you practice long enough.

Soon you will see yourself progressing at light speed toward accomplishing your goals. Be sincere and consistent in doing this.

In a YouTube video “Inspirational video you can do this” gives examples of what can be accomplished with the development of I can attitude:

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Rules For Parenting American Way

As a parent you need to create certain habits in your children so that they can become self respecting, financially independent and one day the role models for their children. I read a detailed article about it which I will summarize here. According to that author considered following key points:

Set expectation early
Make independence the goal and set time limits
Teach good financial habits early
Savings is must and reinvesting should be central theme
Coach your grandchildren
Doing second job is not bad thing
Mentor them by example
• Teach them consistency, and tenaciousness till they complete their set goals

Teaching them these key things as early in life as possible will make them success magnets in their adult life.

A YouTube Video – “Why parents should start teaching their kids Now about money! – Ep.9” by Rachel Cruze tell parents about teach your kids about how to handle money as early as 6 year of age:

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Make Listening A Major Part of Your Conversation

Most people spend greater part of their time during a conversation preparing for what they want to say at the first chance they get. They do not pay attention to what other person is trying to convey to them. That is reason they do not become successful in knowing how to achieve whatever goal they want during the conversation with others.

Key is not to jump to have your say in conversation, instead let other person finish their part. Pay full attention to the conversation when other person is speaking. Let there be pause of 3 to 4 seconds when other person finish. Then start your part and keep it short. This way other party will listen your full conversation and you will have complete benefit of reaching your goal swiftly.

Clear and concise conversation in a better understood dialog will increase your success rate in your life.

A YouTube video – “3 Ways to Improve Your Communication Skills” by Brian Tracy is a good advice on the matter:

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Your Reaction Or Response To A Situation Dictates Your Present And Future

Your reaction (immediate response) to any situation can be without proper rationalizing the situation. Reaction can turn any situation into negative if it is taken without discerning. Aim should be to study the circumstances and find out exact story behind the situation before you decide what you do with it. Once everything is clear then make a decision and respond firmly.

Doing so you are responding and not reacting to the circumstances. Majority of times your response will be positive and results will be good for everyone. Aim is to create a positive results out of most of things you do. It will always add up to happy and successful life. More successful you become the better your present and future will be.

A YouTube Video “Learning to Respond, Not React” by Tara Brach gives some clarification between reacting and responding:


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Is Ego Derailing Your Success

When anyone always lost in or gives importance to HIMSELF (or HERSELF) there is definitely an EGO Problem. Don’t think that people can’t recognize your this trait if you have it. It does not win you many friends either. When others find you egotistic they either shun you completely or may become roadblocks in your success journey, sometimes, just to teach you a lesson. Either way you lose.

Observe your own behavior or ask a real friend if you are having an ego issue. A real friend will tell you truth and you should be happy that you have a real friend who will share the truth with you. Once you recognize the fact, work on it constantly to get rid of this trait of yours. You would like the change in your interaction with others. It will help you to be more successful in life.

A YouTube Video, “Relationship Communication Problems: Egos and Defensiveness” explains a simple way of getting rid of ego:


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Recognize The Gift In Each Situation

Whatever happens in life, any situation that comes in your life, has a meaning. Actually it is gift for you. Accept it as a gift. Always acknowledge it as a gift. If it is not that great situation, learn a lesson from it. If it is good enjoy it.

It is not important what UNIVERSE throws at you, but crucial thing is what you think of it and how you respond to that particular situation. It is important what you think of any situation, when it presents itself in your life. If you think of it negatively, it keeps getting more and more negative till it becomes unsolvable. On the other hand if you take it as an isolated anomaly in your life and take a proper action when it is a small situation, you can take care of it and it will never become a problem. More over there is no such thing as a problem. It is always a situation. Any situation is solvable and can be taken care of.

Now consider every situation as a gift from Universe and make the best of it. Turn it into a positive lesson. Then there is nothing else but look ahead for better changes in your life to make anyone envious of you as for as happiness and progress. Though that should not be your aim in life. Always try to be on positive side of the equation of life.

A YouTube video, “How To Turn Negative Vibes into Positive Fuel” by Marie Forleo, gives a simple way to turn negative vibes to positive one. If You believe that it will help, and then it will help, it all depends on what you think!

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Take One Hundred Percent Responsibility For What Is Happening In Your Life

When someone treats you bad or bullies you, it is not that person’s fault. It is you who should take responsibility. You got dealt with a bad card in your life, because of your own inaction. If you did not responded passively when that person was treating you bad, you would not have set precedent for other people to treat you badly. Since you acted passively to first bad treatment by someone you sort of gave an open invitation to next person you interact with to be bad to you. They saw your passive response and decided that they can get away doing the same to you again. Had you not acted passively, but acted assertively and let the person know at the first instance or may be took yourself away from the situation and decided not to be victim, next person would not have thought the doing similar thing to you again because you will not be worth their while and left you alone.

Moral is stand up for yourself and don’t let others to think that they can belittle you and treat you badly. You will see it will build a self confidence in you and you will be successful in most circumstances. So please work on your responding methods to any situation. It will change your life for better.

A YouTube video – “How can I be 100 percent responsible for my experience?” made by Russ Littau The Healing center shed some light on above thought:

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Sleep Is Important To Be Successful In Life

Sleep is very important part of daily life. This is time when your mind rearranges all things that happened in the previous day and files at reasonable places in your brain so you can access them when needed. It is also the time your sub-conscious mind redirects the chemist part of your brain to fix the problems with various faulty processes in your body. In other words it cures the diseases in the body.

The ideal time when it happens is 10PM to 2AM every night. That is why it is important to sleep at the right time every day. There are few things you can do and don’t do so you can have good night sleep.

Here are things you should do:
• Learn to stay happy and avoid being depressed during day.
Create comfortable condition sleep inducing condition before you sleep.
• Stay as healthy as possible by natural ways with diet and exercise.
Avoid stimulating drinks like caffeine containing beverages right before sleep.
Have brisk walk little before sleeping and do some breathing exercising.
Avoid greasy and heavy oily foods before sleeping
Have the dinner early like 6 to 7PM at the latest.
Avoid watching TV or playing on computer in bed.
Spend some time with family in the bed telling bedtime stories. It builds good family relationships.
Avoid dosing off during day.
Dark atmosphere in bedroom also help inducing good sleep by initiating formation of melatonin in body.
• Make a routine for sleeping at same time every day to bring your body in rhythm.
• In case you gone through a time zone change skip your routine but make a immediate shift to new time zone time but keep the your sleeping time same but at new time zone times. This resets you body and let you adapt quickly.
Leave work at the work place.

If you do all those things right, chances are pretty good that you will be able to sleep well. If you are well rested you will succeed in everything as your mind will work well and you will be full of energy to tackle anything you set your mind to.

But all this does not mean that you will not have to do what it takes to be successful. It only means you will be better equipped because of what sleeping properly does for you.

“The benefits of a good night’s sleep-Shai Marcu” A YouTube Video by TEDEX gives reasons for good sleep:

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Principles To Live BY

There are certain things you must do in life to make it better. These are:

Believe before you pray
Listen before you speak
Think before you write
Earn before you spend
Try before you quit
Live before you die

These are very simple thoughts but must be given full attention to achieve any success in life.

A YouTube video, “Daily Life Motivation #129 – 5 Principles to live by” by MuscleProdigy TV Gives 5 principles in life to live by, Enjoy your life and live by them:

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