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Keep Yourself Composed When You Are About To Lose It, It Will Help You Succeed!

According to the Merriam Webster’s Dictionary, composure defined = a calmness or repose especially of mind, bearing, or appearance: self-possession.



Would you consider composure as a desired characteristic? At a job interview would you mention the ability to keep composure under stress a strength. I think it is one of the most under-rated desired trait or characteristic. Countless times I’ve wished I would have kept it together and not lost it (total ape sh*t lost it). But sigh I digress. I don’t know if you could relate but I wish I could have turned back the clock many of times and said what I’ve wanted to say better if I just hadn’t lost my composure. If only I could have kept it together long enough I could have articulated what I needed to say better. Perhaps I would have been taken more seriously and not appeared as an emotional wreck. Perhaps I would have been able to prove the point I needed to make all along and just wasn’t able to because I just couldn’t keep my composure. Funny thing is literally 5 minutes ago I walked away from the computer and almost lost it because of a work-related issue. However, I walked back to my desk and saw this post open which I wanted so carefully to make my point on. So deep breath kiddo… I’m practicing how to keep my composure.
We are human and sometimes we joke “oh boy that one has a temper on her”. Or “she is gonna lose it, straight lose it when she finds out xyz”. As an adult I’ve gained a new take on life, one in which I rely on God and less in the pantheistic ways I once was accustomed to.

I would like to share something with you which I would tell anyone of my dear ones. It’s okay to be upset/hurt/angry etc. We were made to feel all these ways. Be true to who you are because you know how to help yourself the best. Take a moment to be present in these feelings because it’s important to interpret and work through these emotions to really move on and keep your composure. And it’s okay to have these moments of self-loss but it’s also important to center again.

There is a wealth of information available on how to effectively keep your composure from a business standpoint. I’ve included link to an article named 7 Ways Leaders Maintain Their Composure In Difficult Times. I wish you success in trying to keep composure or better compose yourself.

A YouTube Video below on composure will give you something to think about and may also motivate you to keep your composure during times when circumstances may tempt you, not to.

Here is a little pact I’ve made with myself and I hope it may also inspire you.

Dear Past Self – I wish I could have kept better composure but I forgive myself because it was in these moments that I learned the value of keeping it together, not only for myself but for all around me.

Dear Present Self – I promise to work on keeping composure, given what I’ve learned be more aware during the moments.

Dear Future Self – I promise to be committed to keeping composure and be more reflective on moments when I wish I could have been more composed. I hope you can look back and feel I tried to work on this characteristic.

This article is written by our guest contributor – GW4



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Smile Breaks The Communication Barriers

When you smile at someone when you meet even though you met them first time or during a conversation they unconsciously smile back at you. When they smile at you they feel happy about it. That is a good positive feeling and it will facilitate your conversation in a positive way. That is good for achieving whatever your goal is.

So smile to greet the people if you are in an unknown environment and during conversation with the people you don’t know that will help you create a positive atmosphere, which will be conducive to success in whatever your goal may be.

A YouTube video – “The hidden power of smiling” by Ron Gutman gives effects of smile:


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Forget Past And Embrace Present, Then Future Will Be what You Want It

Past is gone! It can’t come back. It is history. History repeats only if you don’t learn from it. Get it out of your way. If you always keep past in your mind, it is you who is bringing it in your present. It will definitely affect your future in a way because you keep clinging to it. Shake it off. It will reduce the burden on your mind. Fewer sufferings, from your past you bring in present, the better your future will be. No matter how painful the past have been, finding a way find a way to let it go.

Remember the future can be great and happy but great future can’t start till you let your past go. Your past is a road block in your present success, which will have a great impact on your future. Why carry that burden on your mind which has no relevance to your present or future. Lighter your mind feels the more you can achieve.

A YouTube video – “Letting Go Of The Past – How To Get Over The Past In Minutes” By Leo From Actualized.org gives ways to let past go:


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Successful People Are Persuaders

Successful people have natural persuasive ability. They always have a desire to win. They have a vision and are very enthuastic about it. They get so much excited about it that seem to be on fire about their vision. Their excitement creates the similar feelings in others. That is reason other people follow them and move to be a part of their success. They don’t know that it is the reason we follow them. Their desire to win creates the same feeling in others. We want to see them win and we are drawn to them because of their desire and excitement to win. Their desire to win acts like a magnet to make other people follow them. That is the reason they are able to persuade us to follow them.

So to be successful person create that desire to win and get excited about it. When you do that you will create persuasive abilities in you. Then people will follow you. Your excitement with your goals should be big enough to set you on fire. Then you will create a burning desire in you. When you will burn people will come from all over and follow you to see you burning in passion to succeed.

A YouTube video – “Using The Law Of Reciprocity And Other Persuasion Techniques Correctly” by Brian Tracy gives some persuasion techniques:


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Accept Failures As a Natural Process In Journey To Success

Failing in anything has different meaning for different people. Unsuccessful person will look at failure as a bad thing. Their mindset tells them that if they fail few times they have to give up their goal. When they give up they confirm their own opinion that they can’t succeed. So they become a loser.

Henry Ford said, “If you think it is right then it is right, if you think it is wrong, then it is wrong, because it is your thinking that makes it so.”

It is thinking of failure as bad thing that makes it bad.

While successful people think that failure is not a bad thing. They consider failing as a minor roadblock in the process of succeeding. If they fail they find another way around it. They do not give up. They make the journey to success a fun. Failures become insignificant in the process of succeeding.
Suggestion is develop a habit of considering a failure as what it is, a minor road block in the journey to success. You will always find it a minor inconvenience which can be overcome. It is not an all or none situation. There is always an alternative for all situations. Have some patience and find the solution as to why you failed. You will succeed.

A YouTube Video – “Famous Failures.” Gives examples of few famous failures that turned into great success:


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Hone Your Abilities If You Want Success

In general if you want to succeed in life and be happy, there are quite a few areas which you improve upon. All these qualities can be learned by consistent effort towards learning them and by practice you can make them your second nature. Areas you can do something about are:

• Setting goals
• Planning
• Organizing
• Prioritizing tasks
• Exercise
• Healthy eating habits
• Value placing on activities you do
• Socializing with other important people in life
• Practice sessions before jumping into actual situations
• Make decisions
• Follow decisions with actions to produce results

These are few areas you can concentrate on. It is not all intensive list, but can be good start. Main thing is to get started. Direction can be corrected when you are on your way to improve your life. Happy sailing during your journey to success. May the force of universe be on your side!

A YouTube video by Warren Buffett“Success principles” gives another perspective:


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Dealing With Consistent Negativity So That It Does Not Destroys Your Success

Some people are always upset with one thing or other in their life. They are suspicious of everything in their life and associate the event with negative twist they can come up with. Such people destroy their relationship. Their negativity sucks the life out of any good relationship. Even when everything may be perfectly alright they will find something wrong. They are responsible for their own misery.

My suggestion is keep them away from your life. That does not mean that I am suggesting that if you have someone in your own family or someone you really care about abandon him or her. In that case it is your responsibility to change that person’s negativity. It will take time but if done in small step to avoid resistance from their sub-conscious mind it is feasible. First understand where the negativity is stemming from. Then ask questions to clarify. Finally get them involved by asking how will they correct what is wrong? Open a dialog and make them realize that everyone is not against them. There are people who care about them.

Use your positive energy for creating good where it may be possible.

A YouTube video – “How to deal with negative people” by Paul from Capstone Publishing gives a perspective on such negative people:

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Develop AN I Can Do Attitude

Success principle which can be vital for your success is developing “I CAN Do It” attitude. Give yourself an order as often as you can that I can do it. Then take small steps to follow the feeling as frequently as you can. Eventually it will become a habit and every time something you see or wanted to do you will start handling the task with the feeling and attitude that you can do it. You will attain that feeling permanently if you practice long enough.

Soon you will see yourself progressing at light speed toward accomplishing your goals. Be sincere and consistent in doing this.

In a YouTube video “Inspirational video you can do this” gives examples of what can be accomplished with the development of I can attitude:

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Is Ego Derailing Your Success

When anyone always lost in or gives importance to HIMSELF (or HERSELF) there is definitely an EGO Problem. Don’t think that people can’t recognize your this trait if you have it. It does not win you many friends either. When others find you egotistic they either shun you completely or may become roadblocks in your success journey, sometimes, just to teach you a lesson. Either way you lose.

Observe your own behavior or ask a real friend if you are having an ego issue. A real friend will tell you truth and you should be happy that you have a real friend who will share the truth with you. Once you recognize the fact, work on it constantly to get rid of this trait of yours. You would like the change in your interaction with others. It will help you to be more successful in life.

A YouTube Video, “Relationship Communication Problems: Egos and Defensiveness” explains a simple way of getting rid of ego:


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Principles To Live BY

There are certain things you must do in life to make it better. These are:

Believe before you pray
Listen before you speak
Think before you write
Earn before you spend
Try before you quit
Live before you die

These are very simple thoughts but must be given full attention to achieve any success in life.

A YouTube video, “Daily Life Motivation #129 – 5 Principles to live by” by MuscleProdigy TV Gives 5 principles in life to live by, Enjoy your life and live by them:

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