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Be Genuine In Dealing With Other People

No One likes fake people. People gravitate towards genuine people because they know they can trust them. If you don’t know anyone well enough, it is difficult to trust them or even like them. You have to know who they are and how they feel about the various issues in their life before you start liking and trust them. If you are not genuine in the way you conduct yourself it will be not be possible for others to like you or trust you.

Paying attention to what drives you and what makes you happy can project you as a likeable person. If you have to make choices so that people can like you, it will not be effective way to create trust.

A YouTube Video – “How To Build Trust – Build Trust.” By BigVision Shows Gives you some hints about creating trust:


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What You Can Learn From Red Paper Clip Story

A guy with one red paperclip started doing bargains with other people. He traded red paper clip for a fish shaped pen, then sculpted door knob to fueled Coleman camp stove to Honda generator to instant party to a 2 person snow mobile to 2 person trip to British Columbia to a Cube Van to recording contract in Tokyo to spending a afternoon with Alice Cooper to kiss a motorized snow globe to role in Donna on Demand to a two-story farmhouse in Kipling, Saskatchewan. All this he did in one year span of time by crafting all these trades very ingeniously.

There are number of lessons to be learned from this story:

• To succeed in anything it does not matter how humble or small your beginning is.
• It pays to be persistent and stay in the path of success.
Money is not necessary for getting anything.
• It pays be creative and make other person feel that they need what you have.
• God or Universe is great, “You shall RECEIVE what you ASK.” Remember even your mom didn’t gave you food unless you asked when you were little.
Value is based on the perception of value in the eyes of beholder or person who desire certain thing.
One man’s trash may be a great treasure for other.
Being resourceful is more important than the resource itself.
Time is irrelevant; when you get into momentum success usually happens quickly.
Luck is created. You are not born lucky.
Where there is will, there is a way.
Universe brings circumstances, people and events in your path based on the vibrations you send out to it.

A YouTube video – “OneRedPaperClip ABC 20/20” by Ryan what a story on what you Can achieve if your mind is set on doing something:

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Ways To Increase Productivity

To be successful one has to be able to complete their goals in a reasonable time, so that they can feel excited about accomplishing their goals. I have few ideas to increase productivity which can help people reach their goals quicker:

• During your waking time there are certain periods you are more productive than others. Find out when you are more productive and use that slot of time to do what you need to do the most important work.
Forget about doing those tasks that are not important in current time. This removes unimportant tasks from chores to be done and saves more time to do important tasks.
Get rid of tasks which do not like to do by doing them first and getting them out of way. This gives you opportunity to concentrate on things which you really love to do.
Set goals for your active time period. Once you have planned the priorities the way you want you can really start finishing them.
Remove distractions when you doing a task so you can accomplish what you want.
Do similar tasks in one time-slot. It saves lot of time by not going back and forth between dissimilar tasks.
Give set amount of time slot for even similar tasks following a certain sequence and whatever is left do it in next day in the same time slot.
Set a goal how much work must be finished in a particular allocated time. Keep achieving more than your target.
• Certain task when finished makes you actually finish bigger part of the task. That part usually is 20% of effort needed. Do that first; it will make you feel you accomplish a lot. Here is the fact that 20% of actions produce 80% of results.
Delegate some of work to others recognizing their ability to the job. It not only gives you free time to do more things, it also increases your productivity by doing what you love to do more.
Set a deadline for endpoint in a task really helps you focus. It makes you feel that task is necessary and will get it done.
• Important to learn various other ways which help you do everything little faster.
Implement all those steps and if you need more help send your contact info to makeurdreamsareality@gmail.com or visit my website at http://makeurdreamsareality.com and leave contact info.

A YouTube video – “6 Time Management Tips to Increase Productivity” By Brian Tracy gives some guidance to increase productivity:

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How To Deal With Difficult People

Once you precisely identify the difficult people in your life, You should start reducing their affect on your own success in life. In yesterday’s blog the video by Leo contained information to find out who are the difficult people and some methods on how to deal with them.

Here are some recommended approaches to deal with difficult people:

Stay calm and collective. Never lose your cool when dealing with such people.
Keep a respectable distance from difficult people. Avoid going out with such people in a group especially they are from your work place.
• Use soft honesty to deal with such people. Be tactful when doing business with such people state your request precisely, making a clear point, stick to the business and resolve the issue at hand promptly and politely.
Refuse to take difficult behavior of someone personally especially when they are doing that with everyone. This means they are not doing this to you. They behave like this to everyone. Their behavior is not directed specifically towards you. Don’t see them as a challenge to you and get drawn into conflict.
• When you are boss of difficult person, set your parameters right and establish consequences in case the person keep breaking the rules. Always take a decisive action to send a message loud and clear. This way you will avoid future situations.
• In case person uses a foul language , request a fifteen minute meeting alone with them. State the person what they are suppose to do as far as job requirement. Clearly stat the expectations. Very politely explain that foul language is not acceptable and will have consequences if continued in future.
Employ humor in conversation whenever possible. That keeps the conversation in positive tone. But always make sure you can stand by statements.

A YouTube Video – “How to deal with difficult people” by Howdini informs about how to deal with difficult boss or a co-worker:


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Identify Kind Of Difficult People In Your Life

Some people are just difficult to deal with, but they are integral part of your life. You have to learn to deal with them on ongoing daily basis. Most important step in dealing with them is to be able to identify them. Once you know who they are, you will be able to chalk out proper plan to deal with them.

Let us dig into knowing who they are.

• They could be close family member, who you can be stuck with rest of your life does not matter what happens in life. You feel you have certain responsibility towards them.
• Your friends.
• They could be a co-worker. You are going to come in close business contact with them. Nothing short of leaving your job may help to avoid them.
• A cashier or floor worker in or a grocery store. That can be easily avoided. You will not be coming in touch them that often. They cannot be much of hindrance in progress of your life.
• A person you met in a party. It can also be minor inconvenience.
• An occasional encounter with a difficult person can be possible anywhere.

Each of the difficult people can be put in different category and can be dealt with accordingly. Environment is important in your progress in life. I have some thoughts on this topic which we will discuss in future blog posts.

A YouTube video – “How To Deal With Difficult & Toxic People” by Leo from Actualized.org shows a good understanding of the subject and gives some solutions on how to deal with difficult people:

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Watch What You Say and How You Say

What you say is important. How is you say, is also equally important. What is your speech pattern positive or negative? If overtone of speaking is negative, little on dry side, or lacking in positive vibrations, make a conscious effort to change it only to positive speech. When you are focusing on positive in every situation try to use upbeat words only. This will make your speech look lively to person hearing it. Such a manner of speaking will work out in your favor.

A YouTube video – “5 Tips To Improve Your Public Speaking – How To Speak Professionally – Speech Speaker Tips” gives some good tips about improving speaking:


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Don’t Get Hung Up On One Thing Only You Can Achieve Wonders In Spite Of Hang ups

Once in while you may get a situation that may seem like holding you back. Such thing may seem like as if it is ruining your day. If you find yourself facing such situation, make a decision to let it go so that it does not keep bothering you. Consider this thing for a moment, how many other wonderful things are waiting for you to experience them? Don’t just one little situation stop you from experiencing those wonderful things waiting to brighten your day. Be open to the positive things that Universe can send you instead of just one situation that is holding you up and robbing you of the experience waiting for you.

Ultimately nothing is more important to you than your happiness and that will depend on letting go whatever is holding you up.

In a YouTube video – Rion Paige didn’t let her handicap hold her back from Wonderful performance at “The X Factor USA 2013” – Judges are “Blown Away” It really shows why should you should not let anything hold you back from what you want to achieve:

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Be Thankful And Get More Positive Things In Your Life

When you feel little down or negative, it helps if you find little things to be thankful in life. It will uplift you right away. To make it easy for get ball rolling in being thankful to Universe make a list of things you are thankful for. Count all those small things which make your life easy don’t matter how small it may be. Like if you find a lucky penny on street. Things you take for granted – the air you breathe, the heart pumping blood to rest of body, without both these things our life itself can’t exist. What about the hug you got from loved one or smile you got from a stranger in a place where nobody knew you?

If you list all the small things it will be long list. Look at it and verbally say right before you sleep at night and after you get up in morning. You will have happiness coming in your life. The power of gratitude is well documented in all religions as well. It will increase your positive feeling which in turn will help you to be successful.

Here is YouTube Video – “Things To Be REALLY Thankful for” enumerates quite a few things to be thankful for:


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Surround Yourself With Positive People

Us being social people we can feel the energetic vibrations of other people. These vibrations affect us negative and positive ways depending on their nature. If you surround yourself with positive friends and family members who will send you positive vibrations your life can be changed to a positive. Just being in their company can uplift your morale when you are feeling down. Remember, feeling positive about things in your life can enhance your chances of succeeding in life.

So I will suggest that you should surround yourself with positive people and enhance your own success, while sending positive feelings to other people affecting them positively also. There is another saying too, “What you send others you get tenfold back.” Keep sending positive feelings to others that will enrich you also.

“How To Make Awesome Friends & Surround yourself with positive people!”
– YouTube video gives some ideas on how to surround yourself with positive people:

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Give your Sub-conscious Mind Positive Reinforcement

Nothing helps you better to create a positive attitude than daily saying of positive affirmations. When you say positive things aloud it gives your sub-conscious mind something positive to base your future decision on. Saying those positive affirmations routinely make your sub-conscious mind believe them. Affirmations are nothing else, but a positive statements which bring positive energy into your present moment. Affirmations are the tools to communicate with your sub-conscious mind so that you can control the way you feel. Use them as frequently as possible to bring positivity to your thoughts whenever you need them. What affirmations you say, I will leave them to your own choice depending upon your faith and beliefs.

I myself often use following : JE TU MERE VAL HAI TAAN KIA MUSHHENDA TU SUBH KUSH MENU SAUPIA JA TERA BANDA LAKHMI TORH NAAN AVHI KHAI KHURCH RHENDA LAKH CHAURASSI MEDNI,SUBH SEV KRANDA ….. This affirmation from Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji has been doing great for me.

Pick up any positive thought presented in your own faith and say it aloud every day. It will do wonders to your thought process and bring positivity in your life. If you want me to let you know my thoughts or my affirmations leave a comment in that regard it will write you back or even make a discussion on my web about them.

“Positive Affirmations for Self-Esteem”
– a YouTube video is good way to ignite your positive thoughts for your success in life:


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