Monthly Archives: December 2014

Failing Can Also Lead To Success

Sometimes it seems like that bad things keep happening to you. They are not happening because Universe is victimizing you. It feels like there is conspiracy against you. But if you look at the lives all famous people they became great only after overcoming the situations they were in.

Alexander Graham Bell, Steve Jobs and Donald Trump all have to go through bad circumstances in their lives before they overcame the setbacks and became successful. People, who overcome their misfortunes, became very successful. They all became very rich and successful after their financial trauma.

“Every failure has at its root the seed of some future success.” Napoleon Hill

“Why You Will Fail To Have A Great Career” YouTube video by Larry Smith gives his opinion on failing and success:

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Empower Yourself BY Making YOU Chose Between Choices

Give yourself power to choose between two choices. This is powerful tool which make you accept changes in your behavior very easily. Your sub-conscious mind will not make any road blocks in accepting those changes.

Suppose you want to change your dietary habit. Instead of eating junk food give yourself a choice between two healthy foods. Your mind will select one of the two choices without thinking about any other food. Since you are letting your own mind decide what you should eat, it will not show any resistance to the idea of eating healthy food. When you do it every time you eat it will eventually create a new habit of eating a healthy food. Remember your mother asking you if you wanted to eat your carrots and broccoli, or just your broccoli. You said either carrots and broccoli or Broccoli and eat it without further complaining. Well even as adults your mind works same way, so you should take advantage of this technique and create new habits to make you successful in life.

Giving you a choice is very painless way to improve chances of success in any endeavor.

Will Smith – “Ultimate Motivational Speeches” YouTube video explains affect of choice in Your success:

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Darkest Clouds Also Have Silver Lining

Once in a while situations arise in everyone’s life, where everything seems to go wrong. It does not matter how hard you try, it does not seem to work. You keep getting failure after failure. Circumstances look dismal day after day. Negative situations have the best of you thrown into deep sea of failures.

There is no need of letting negativity cloud your thinking
. Always remind yourself that setbacks usually occur just before you are about to succeed in your goal. Seek the reason behind the setback and give yourself a chance to solve that situation. Look for silver lining for your challenging situation. Pray to calm your negativity. When you sincerely ask for guidance Universe will provide it.

Do not get stuck in a negative thought. They say you become what you think about all the time. So fill your conscious moments with positive thinking. Sub-conscious will catch on very quickly.

Look for the silver lining clip of Jerome Kern and Buddy DeSylva’s classic from the 1920 musical “Sally,” shown here from the 1929 film version in YouTube Video is shown below:

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Let Go Of The Past

Lot of people keep living in past and let their past build road blocks to future progress. One should learn from past occurrences in their past but never let them control your present and affect their future.

Here are few ideas on how you can break free from past and use past as a stepping stone to shape your future:

Past mistakes are only undesirable results of past failures. Write them on a white paper with blue ink. This will get them out of your mind. They can not affect you anymore.
• Consider the past mistakes as opportunities to learn. They help you to look back and reflect on your strengths and weaknesses. Make a note of them and avoid making them all over again.
• Most effective way to let go of past is to focus on the present. Your present is the only real thing and it deserves full attention.
Put a spice of excitement in your present life so that past life looks pale in comparison. You mind will definitely and automatically start appreciating exciting life.
Set small but big enough goals so that they can be easily achieved at the same time excite you on completing them.
Goals should make you look forward to results in future.
Contributing time, energy and money to a worthy cause are the best ways to forget past mistakes and bringing your attention to present moment. Delving like that in present will make your future also very exciting.
• Try to remember how you have grown over the years and learned from your circumstances in the past. This will help you cope with current situation also.
Expect the progress to be uncomfortable at times. Changes look some very difficult to make and adapt. It is the human nature.
Make small changes at a time, your inner road blocks in mind will not feel them as threats and slowly you will make bigger changes in your life.
Recognize the changes other people are making in their lives. Appreciate them doing so and that will give you a reason to do it in your life.

It is to our advantage to get over our past and live in present. Again past is a history and future does not exist yet. So let us make our present the best we can so that our future can be as best as possible.

“Letting Go Of The Past-How To Get Over The Past In Minutes” a YouTube Video explains how to let go of past:

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Law Of One Percent

Simply stated “Law of One Percent” means that you improve yourself every week by 1%.

Every human being is a unique wonder and has a beauty within that is worth bringing out, That is reason why everyone should improve themselves and bring out the unique personality out.

It will help if you keep these things in mind while improving yourself:

When learning to improve yourself don’t compare yourself to other people you know. Only person you should compare to is yourself. Aim is to improve you.

• Trick is to keep making consistent improvement. Even the tiny steps you take will make you 100% better in couple of years. Consistency is the secret sauce you need to be successful in this endeavor.

“5 great steps to building Self-confidence” a YouTube video by Brian Tracy gives some improvement hints in building a better you:

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Thanks For Being A Part Of My Life

Thank you visiting my website. I hope you enjoyed your stay at the site. I will continue to improve the information I blog about as well as site itself. Quite a few persons have given good suggestions and I have tried to incorporate that. It is a learning curve for me, since I am a pharmacist and not a software programmer. But I am learning and will continue to progress. So please bear with me till I get hang of all things we want to change. With your support, encouragement and help, I will achieve my aim of helping and motivating as many people as feasible. I thank everyone and very grateful to you all for the guidance.

I am thankful to all the spammers also, who try to add their website to comments. I have successfully blocked them every time. It is sometime time consuming. But it is OK that is part of work. I am not upset with them. They make me hone my skills faster than I would have been able to do otherwise. But I will definitely appreciate if they give me a break here and there. I know they use robotic programs. I would not have ever known about them had they not constantly done this to my websites. My websites are so far non-commercial and I want to keep them that way only. I do appreciate them giving me some consideration in holiday spirit if nothing else.

Season’s greetings, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all my friends all over the world. May your NEW Year be filled with happiness .May you never be the same!!

Please visit your favorite website again and leave comments. I read everyone and answer individually and respond if response is needed within reasonable time.

GOD BLESS YOU! May Waheguru be with you? May Universe help you find the purpose of your life?

This post is for 12/25/2014 even though I am doing in advance. There will be additional post tomorrow!

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Learning The Life Lessons

People keep getting into relationship same kind again and again. They wonder why they are being put through same circumstances again and again.

The reason for that is the Universe is trying to teach you certain things which will make you understand the purpose of your life. The reason you were born. Instead of getting upset with circumstances you should learn from them. You have to study the circumstances and elevate yourself from them and not listen to excuses or explanations everyone is giving to you.

All matters is, not what comes at you but how you handle it.Key is to not to react but respond. Learn to express your feelings. There is no such thing as bad feeling. You will start awakening to the lessons Universe(GOD) is exposing you. If you become aware of such life lessons and then you consciously respond. You will have success beyond believe. Your life will become happy and satisfying to you. Everyone comes to this world with a purpose and you shall find it. Listen to your feelings. It is not always black and white answers to every situation. If you try and understand why of circumstances, you will find the purpose of your life.

“Everything Happens for a Reason”
YouTube Video by CrnaLisia gives very fine presentation of what I am talking about:

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Another Pointer For Success

Start a habit of keeping a journal of all action steps you are taking towards reaching your goal and note the results also. When you get stuck you should refer to these notes and analyze them. This analysis will help you find your shortcoming and let you reach the solution to problem very quickly. It will increase your productivity and give you momentum to reach or surpass your goals.

Journal should record these things in it:

  • Record your progress. It will provide with chronological data which gives you hindsight and information for improving the processes.
  • Record daily insights from your progress towards your goals. It increases your awareness of your well as your weaknesses.
  • Great way to record your gratitude. Doing so shifts your mindset towards positivity which will help you succeed.
  • Write things that worry you on daily basis. Dumping them out of your mind clear clutter from your mind.
  • Write your ideas floating in your mind. Sometimes you might need to change the direction in which you are going. These ideas might come handy in developing towards your goals.
  • Write what you want to do after you achieve your current goal. Success is a work in progress.

Robin Sharma on “How To keep a journal” in a YouTube Video gives his view on the writing a Journal:

 

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Change Food And Other Routine Choices If You Want To Succeed

To Succeed in achieving your goals you have to make changes in what you do, the way you do it is one at a time. This way internal sub-conscious road blocks do not feel those feel threatened by the small changes and you start building a momentum as start getting success.

Today I am suggesting you make changes in what you eat. Best foods to eat are un-cooked raw foods because they contain vitamins, minerals, enzymes and other important components which enhance the brain functions. Make you feel alert and help your brain come up with out of box ideas which can make you very successful by making you alert, increasing focus and ability to create innovative solutions to hurdles you face in your success journey. Add one food item at time based on your preferences. Here are some food and other suggestions:

Avoid saturated fats, trans fats and too much of minerals like iron and copper. These foods are responsible for amyloidal plaque.
Eat Strawberries, Red grapes, Blue berries. They contain antioxidants which are good for brain
Eat raw green leafy vegetables like Broccoli and Lettuce and Bell peppers especially colored One. They have vitamins B12 and folic acid which enhance brain functions.
Black beans, Red kidney beans and Chick peas are good source of vitamin B6.
Exercise at least 3 times a week like a good half hour brisk walk.
Sleep by 10PM. 10PM to 2 AM is the best time frame for your sub-conscious mind (brain) to sort and  file the information it received during preceding day.

Here is YouTube video – Power foods can help improve memory and cognitive brain functions– by KCL gives a good summary view on the topic:

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Achieving Happiness

We all want happiness. We keep on not getting it, Why is it so? Let us discuss all points and see how can we try to resolve the sticking issues on the topic?

Happiness can be defined as feeling of delight and peace with yourself and with others. You just feel blessed. People also feel happy when they achieve certain goals in their life and accomplish things like getting married to the person they love. Make a family with children of their own.

As we get things we want, we start thinking of the things we want to own and achieve thinking that is going to make us happy. Unfortunately that starts a vicious cycle of unhappiness instead. Then we start thinking how can we get out of our responsibility to our own family and children. We start looking for excuses to blame the whole world around us. We start manipulating the normal conversation of our loved ones and start blaming them for everything so that we can set us free of our doing by breaking up. This is fault of our ingrown attitudes the way our life has taught us from previous experiences. We start forcing our will on our spouses or friends making us look like we are only correct person and always others are to be blamed. In your heart you will always know that you are wrong. Who are we kidding? GOD doesn’t look at this behavior favorably. HE then creates circumstances, opportunities and brings the people in our lives, which may look to us as right people for the moment, actually end up giving us more grief and un-happiness in our lives.

A best course of action according to what I know is that we should introspect us. Find what our actions and reactions in life are doing to us. Take responsibility for our behavior instead of living life of mysticism, in which we blame others. Play understanding game by putting yourself in other person’s shoe. When it dawns on us that maybe we can be wrong. Then be human and own your mistakes and correct them.
Love, happiness and bliss in life don’t come by triggering your spouse to react and making them look like they are at fault. It comes in your life by doing right things for you, your spouse and children, and family as a whole. Treat the others in the way you want them to treat you.

Love and happiness are very contagious. Give them open heartedly and without any stipulations or conditions. GOD will rewards you handsomely for doing right things. GOD may have delay in delivering your bliss but it will come if you are open to receive it. When you are blaming others for everything, you surely are responsible for creating that situation(Introspect). So be responsible for your actions and do the right thing. Your happiness depends upon it.

Three tips to a happy successful marriage YouTube video:

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