Mar 052015
 

People who consider themselves as victims all the time should also be aware of so that they do not hinder your success. These people think themselves as perpetual victims. They look at their own circumstances and mistakes and find someone else, like their boss, their parents, teachers or friends to blame for it, to be in their life. These people once you recognize them should be avoided from your existence especially you are unable to help them. Once you are on the look for them you should be able to spot them.

Alternatively, listen to such a victim and offer to help. But make it very clear to victim that he or she need to correct their thinking and stop blaming everyone else and take ownership of things happening in their life. Do it as delicately as you can.

A YouTube video “Dealing with a “Victim Mentality”: Emotional Freedom in Action” by Judith Orloff MD:

 


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Mar 042015
 

People lie all the time. Sometimes their lie may be innocuous and it may be downright harmful towards succeeding in your goals

Reason behind the thought is you never know what to make of the conversation with such person. You can’t depend and believe their word. They lie to you about what other people are saying about you. They also turn around and say false things about you to others.

Listening to a liar and acting on the information they give you can be disastrous for your success. So recognize the people who lie and be prepared to discern before believing what they say. I am not saying don’t believe anyone. Saying goes like this, “Your eyes and ears can deceive you.” So you have to be cognizant of what you are perceiving is factual. If you can do that it will be very helpful in achieving your goals.

A YouTube Video “Do Dirty People Lie More?” from DNews gives reasons and basis for why people lie:

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Mar 032015
 

Some people portray themselves as know it all. Their attitude is from their own insecurities. They always think they are the only one who know how to do anything right. When they are around you never get a chance to put forth any ideas of your own. They always try to get a center stage in every situation.

They always want to be in control of every situation. It does not matter whether it concerns them or not.

Suggestion is recognize their presence in your circumstances and take required measures to assert your existence in as positive way as possible.

Just for the fun of it here is a YouTube video of “Mr. Know it All – How to be a Top Flight Salesman”:


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Mar 022015
 

Some people are always upset with one thing or other in their life. They are suspicious of everything in their life and associate the event with negative twist they can come up with. Such people destroy their relationship. Their negativity sucks the life out of any good relationship. Even when everything may be perfectly alright they will find something wrong. They are responsible for their own misery.

My suggestion is keep them away from your life. That does not mean that I am suggesting that if you have someone in your own family or someone you really care about abandon him or her. In that case it is your responsibility to change that person’s negativity. It will take time but if done in small step to avoid resistance from their sub-conscious mind it is feasible. First understand where the negativity is stemming from. Then ask questions to clarify. Finally get them involved by asking how will they correct what is wrong? Open a dialog and make them realize that everyone is not against them. There are people who care about them.

Use your positive energy for creating good where it may be possible.

A YouTube video – “How to deal with negative people” by Paul from Capstone Publishing gives a perspective on such negative people:

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Mar 012015
 

Some people are never happy with what they achieve themselves. They are suffering from plague called jealousy. They never feel happy even when good things happen in their life.

If you achieve something in your life and progress better than them, it makes them very unhappy. Their reasoning is that if anything good is happening it should happen in their life. They generate very negative vibrations.

My suggestion is if you have someone like that in your life stay clear of that person. They are nothing but a heap of negative vibrations.

A YouTube video “Soul Connection 34 – Dealing with jealousy and jealous people – Sr Shivani (English)” gives a different opinion on jealousy and how you should respond to it:

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Feb 282015
 

People come with all kind of qualities in their personalities. Qualities which bring the negative vibes in your life because of interaction with them should be avoided and stayed away from. Just as you would avoid putting toxins in your bodies, I would prefer to keep the negative vibes of such people from my life. I will attempt to give you some ideas about qualities of such person’s one at time in future blogs.

Today’s topic is about arrogance as quality to be avoided. There is big difference between confidence and arrogance. Confidence inspires you. Confident people accept other people’s confidence in them and encourage them. It is a positive vibration.

Arrogance is quality in the people who think they always know best. They think themselves to be superior to others. They will never be happy with confidence in you because it messes with their arrogance. This is a big time negative feeling and must be avoided. Try you best to stay away from the negative people with arrogance. They will hinder your success.

“The Difference Between Confidence and Arrogance” A YouTube video by Brian Tracy diffrentiate between confidence and arrogance:

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Feb 272015
 

Success principle which can be vital for your success is developing “I CAN Do It” attitude. Give yourself an order as often as you can that I can do it. Then take small steps to follow the feeling as frequently as you can. Eventually it will become a habit and every time something you see or wanted to do you will start handling the task with the feeling and attitude that you can do it. You will attain that feeling permanently if you practice long enough.

Soon you will see yourself progressing at light speed toward accomplishing your goals. Be sincere and consistent in doing this.

In a YouTube video “Inspirational video you can do this” gives examples of what can be accomplished with the development of I can attitude:

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Feb 262015
 

As a parent you need to create certain habits in your children so that they can become self respecting, financially independent and one day the role models for their children. I read a detailed article about it which I will summarize here. According to that author considered following key points:

Set expectation early
Make independence the goal and set time limits
Teach good financial habits early
Savings is must and reinvesting should be central theme
Coach your grandchildren
Doing second job is not bad thing
Mentor them by example
• Teach them consistency, and tenaciousness till they complete their set goals

Teaching them these key things as early in life as possible will make them success magnets in their adult life.

A YouTube Video – “Why parents should start teaching their kids Now about money! – Ep.9” by Rachel Cruze tell parents about teach your kids about how to handle money as early as 6 year of age:

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Feb 252015
 

Most people spend greater part of their time during a conversation preparing for what they want to say at the first chance they get. They do not pay attention to what other person is trying to convey to them. That is reason they do not become successful in knowing how to achieve whatever goal they want during the conversation with others.

Key is not to jump to have your say in conversation, instead let other person finish their part. Pay full attention to the conversation when other person is speaking. Let there be pause of 3 to 4 seconds when other person finish. Then start your part and keep it short. This way other party will listen your full conversation and you will have complete benefit of reaching your goal swiftly.

Clear and concise conversation in a better understood dialog will increase your success rate in your life.

A YouTube video – “3 Ways to Improve Your Communication Skills” by Brian Tracy is a good advice on the matter:

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Feb 242015
 

Your reaction (immediate response) to any situation can be without proper rationalizing the situation. Reaction can turn any situation into negative if it is taken without discerning. Aim should be to study the circumstances and find out exact story behind the situation before you decide what you do with it. Once everything is clear then make a decision and respond firmly.

Doing so you are responding and not reacting to the circumstances. Majority of times your response will be positive and results will be good for everyone. Aim is to create a positive results out of most of things you do. It will always add up to happy and successful life. More successful you become the better your present and future will be.

A YouTube Video “Learning to Respond, Not React” by Tara Brach gives some clarification between reacting and responding:


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