Dec 182014
 

Law Of Attraction says whatever vibration you send out to the universe, Universe turns around and sends you same kind of vibrations back to you. But most of people who tried Law Of Attraction swear it does not work. There is nothing wrong with Law Of Attraction, it works all the time. It is as true as jumping off the roof, You surely going to fall down. It makes no difference whether you believe in it or not.

Fact is most individual who try the Law Of Attraction, self sabotage their own success. Less than 2% people are ever successful in it. Process is called unconscious sabotage. Reasons people do not succeed in it, because they:

Quit after a setback.
Procrastinate.
Don’t make a decision.
Don’t follow thru on their decision. All decision must be followed through within 48 hours with some action toward completion of a step for which the decision was made.
Make bad decisions without thinking.
Attract people to them, who take them off-track.

Unconscious sabotage makes you think plenty of reasons in addition to the given above to justify why Law Of Attraction did not work for you. It is your subconscious mind who is doing this to you. All you need to do is to be aware of what is stopping you then can eliminate that hurdle. How i is done? tThat is going to be topic for another post. Visit my website regularly so that you do not miss that answer.

Here is Sonia Ricotti’s view on the Law Of Attraction in An Inspirational Video 1 – The Law Of Attraction below:

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Dec 172014
 

It is fascinating t understand how the music relaxes the stress in human body. Every item in the universe responds differently to different musical notes. Some notes when played can cause glass to break while others to produce rippling effect in water, which gives you feeling of tranquility.

Emotionally music can give people way out to express themselves. It can profoundly affects their psych and relax them. It can get you out of dole drum of life and motivate you enjoy the life. That is why in Sikh religion prayers in temple done with music. That music changes your state of mind and let you connect directly to the GOD (Waheguru Ji), if one sets up in their mind to do so. Energy in the temple changes with that music. That music is healing.

Everything is vibrations in this universe. One has to give themselves permission to immerse in those musical vibrations. It is a challenge to do so, but with right concentration it is possible to achieve that state.

Let us make this discussion and express your feelings about music and how it has affected your life. Please e-mail me your take on the topic at makeurdreamsareality@gmail.com I will then compile those feelings and make it a post to share with our groups so that everyone can benefit from it.

Shabad Gurbani Kirtan – Seven Shabads Video is good example:

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Dec 162014
 

Everything in this universe is energy. Energy must flow. Same way as life energy qi (CHI) flows in human, the environmental qi also must flow. Whenever energy does not flow it means the death. There are different names for this energy. From times way back this flow always been from universe (GOD) to earth through you(Humans) and from earth to universe through you (Humans) and cycle continues. Chinese culture discusses this in detail. What I understand of this, in layman’s terms, to get more money your must also give more of it.

Let me simplify with example. Suppose a car manufacturer makes well engineered car, which looks beautiful, and you as customer buy that car from dealer and as a gratitude for them doing such a great job you give him money. He takes that money and spends on research and development to make even better car. Rest of the money he gives to his employees for doing a great work. Some he keeps for his work for starting that company and his family. Some out of that money he spends on groceries and other necessities of life and rest he invests in some other company which in turn employs people like you. Cycle of the money is completed.

Whole purpose of money is to express gratitude. It is only a vehicle of energy flow from Universe to Earth and vice versa through a medium which is YOU. If you understand this principle then you should not hesitate to spend money knowing that it will come back to you 10 folds as energy flow back to you. The same principle works when you donate the money to help other needy people. That is how GOD takes care of people who take care of other fellow humans.

That is principle followed in SIKH religion when you are suggested to give DASWANDH (10 percent) of your earning to help the needy. This is one part all religious entities agree at. Every person may have different path to reach same goal. I have tried to give one basic principle of Sikh religion in as much as layman’s way as I could. I hope I have done some justice.

Here is Tony Robbins take on money. He authored the book named Money: Master the game. Here are his thoughts in video below:

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Dec 152014
 

Most of people so busy building their future. They get so much involved in future dreams that they lose their ability to enjoy their present. Key point is time to live fully, be in present. If one takes care of their present then and only then they can improve future. Take action to better your life at present moment so that your future will automatically shape to be better.

I can understand that you did not like your past and that is why you want to change your future. To do that your approach should be to change your present. That will give you a better future. Here are few things you can do to affect your present so that you can enjoy your future:

Grab the present moment of your life and live it as if it is your last moment.
Do not hold yourself back with negative thinking like you cannot do it.
• Reflect on what you are failing to do right now.
• Collect information on how many time your mind created thought saying it is not possible.
• Understand all what if situations are created because of your past thought patterns.
• Understand also the past is gone and you cannot change it.
Future is not here so you cannot directly affect it.
• Only tangible thing that you can affect is your present.
Present is real and is within your power to change it.
• Goals are important, but paths you take to achieve them are going to bear the fruits, based on path you chose.
• It is journey through your present where you chose paths.
No reason to have unhappy Journey, just to achieve goals.
• So stay happy at present and enjoy the journey.
• Goals you achieve by staying happy will be positive progress and you know that you are one step closer to your goals.
Believe in yourself and instead of wasting time, use it to learn, take actions and enjoy the journey.

Alan Watts – Explains his thoughts on – living In The Present (boat Analogy) in this video:

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Dec 142014
 

Success is nothing but a state of mind. People who can create an attitude of success have no problem in attaining their goals. When you walk in a place, your attitude should be:

As if you own a place.
Face exuding confidence.
Chest showing openness of heart.
No fear in eyes.
No bad feeling or hatred towards anyone.
Head held high because of who you are.
Spring in your walk. Show enthusiasm.
Succeeding not an option it is necessity.
• It is our birth right to succeed.
Follow your convictions.
Humility.
Grab the opportunities that GOD presents us.
Help others in the same way you expect others to help you.
• And lot more things – they are all there in Our Living GURU – Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji.

It is how people perceive you when you walk in any place. First few seconds is all it takes to be or not be successful. It is not that you cannot be successful if you can’t make grand entrance, it just will need lot more effort.

Here is Sikhism’s take on attitude.

Born to lead – It is our attitude to proud to be Sikh. People have no knowledge about who we are and their attitude towards us is due to ignorance. Sometime people say things to us because they have forgotten that they are alive because of us and our sacrifices as shown in video below:

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Dec 132014
 

Did you ever felt over whelmed? You have million things to do but don’t have enough time to do it all.

If you are in such a bind, you need to fix the situation very quickly. If you don’t, it is going to start affecting health and cascade of bad situations begins.

Now here is 15 minute solution to the rescue. Make a list of all things you need to do. Now go over the list and cross over tasks which are not that important and can wait for next day or next week. Rest of the list should not be too long. It should not be more than 5 to 10 items. If it is longer, then rethink and go over list again till you can make it manageable. Think over the priorities of each task and go over the list. I am sure you can narrow it down to less than five. Usually this list making is done at the end of day to prepare for next day, before you retire for that day.

Start next day start with most urgent or most important thing first. Keep doing one chore at a time till you are either finish with list or left with one or two things. Now you should be very happy with your accomplishment and not over whelmed at all. What is left is not that critical that it cannot wait till next day. That should get rid of your feelings of overwhelmed and even your health should improve because of less stress!

If you feel comfortable delegating some of stuff to others to do can also help. If situation warrants it don’t hesitate to delegate.

If you have choice then chose not to do certain task altogether then don’t do it. After all you cannot be expected to do everything all by yourself.

Break up bigger tasks to smaller tasks that will make it easy to finish.

Here is a YouTube Video on “How to Develop a Prioritized To-Do List.”

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Dec 122014
 

All big changes begin with tiniest adjustments. Important thing is to focus on one little change at one time. When you look on the long term horizon, the smallest of changes make a hugest difference in life. To reach a destination small changes are made all during the journey to achieve our goals. Another point is that small changes are easier to make. Your mind does not trigger road blocks (automatic habits learned from your earlier experiences in life) to stop you from making them.

Example is way a pilot makes adjustments during a flight en route to a destination. He reaches right airport but it is only possible because of adjustments he made while he was flying. Every time his on board instruments showed he is getting slightly off course, he made a change to the direction to correct the situation. Result gave him success in reaching correct destination. Changes he made were small but he achieved his goal in the end.

YouTube video, “Focus on one small change” by Qigong demonstrates effect of making a tiny change:

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Dec 112014
 

Self-awareness as it relates to success principles means being aware of your strengths and weaknesses. Beyond doubt, you should always practice and fine tune your strong points. There are no two opinions about it. But one must also overcome their weakness. You should consistently work hard to correct and improve your weaknesses if you want to successfully achieve your goals. There should be all out effort on your part to overcome your short comings. Once you have done that you are on your way to achieve any goals you chose.

Reasons people don’t have self-awareness are:

Lack of direction. People not being proactive in their lives.
Detachment from feelings, emotions and expectation of the moment.
Separating yourself from a situation and denying that it could be your doing.
Distractions steal people’s self-awareness. People are distracted so much by so many things happening in their lives that they forget to live the present moment simply because they are not aware of what is happening to them.

“The death of self-awareness”
YouTube video by Brendon Burchard does a great justice to the topic of self-awareness below:

So be cognizant of what is happening around you and to you so that you become better person and shape your destiny the way you want it to be.

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Dec 102014
 

General Patton was great leader. I will indulge into various characteristics of his leadership one at a time.

• Very important principle in his leadership was, “you have to lead yourself before you can lead anyone else.” During war in his command he showed leadership by being in the front line with people and leading them by example. Once his soldiers saw him doing things he expected from them, they did not held back from his leadership. They did what he did and that is reason he became very successful general. He gave himself a command to lead and lead his people successfully to victory after victory.
Pull not push. Lead from the front and lead with example. Show the people who are following you what can be done. These were the principles he followed.
Recognize your team’s achievements. Give credit where it belong and do it with utmost sincerity.
Show courage under any circumstances.
• Want to succeed? Show steadiness and be steadfast.

All these qualities added up to make him a leader. Now examine your own personality and see what you have and what you are lacking. Now if you want to lead a successful life develop characteristic you don’t have. That will give success beyond your imagination.

“The General George S. Patton Story” a documentary YouTube video describes his characteristics and achievements:

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Dec 092014
 

The GOD, Universe, Almighty or Whatever You believe in is the names for the same supreme being. We are all creation of THE ONE and are equal in all respects.

There is one trade in this universe you can never lose. That is trade of giving to the less fortunate. Does not matter what you believe in, if you give with the feeling you are doing service to the GOD by serving his people. He looks upon that with kindness and rewards you ten folds. Your thoughts should be on service not on rewards. In my culture it is called Nishkam Seva (selfless service). So find a hungry person and feed him and or his family this season and do not expect anything back. But GOD will surprise you with lot more than you can expect. It does not even matter how much you give so long you give whole heartedly. Do not show off that how much more you are spending in giving. Anonymous giving is even better. But give it to really needy people instead of giving to organizations where most of your donation goes on to pay big salary of the office bearers. Grass root organizations that take care of needy are better choices. Giving on the basis of need, and not based religious convictions of the receiver is best choice, because we are all children of the GOD.

GOD Bless You All!

Sikh Community does this every day in their Gurdwaras (Temples) as shown here in video:

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