Apr 152015
 

When you smile at someone when you meet even though you met them first time or during a conversation they unconsciously smile back at you. When they smile at you they feel happy about it. That is a good positive feeling and it will facilitate your conversation in a positive way. That is good for achieving whatever your goal is.

So smile to greet the people if you are in an unknown environment and during conversation with the people you don’t know that will help you create a positive atmosphere, which will be conducive to success in whatever your goal may be.

A YouTube video – “The hidden power of smiling” by Ron Gutman gives effects of smile:


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Apr 142015
 

People like you or not will depend upon what kind of first impression you give to that person. Once the first impression is created in anyone’s mind then they keep justifying their first impression of you. Though it may sound devious if you understand your whole conversation is based on the first impression, you can easily create easily great first impression so that your conversation helps you to succeed in your goals.

Following points helps you create a good first impression:

• Positive body language.
• Good posture during conversation.
• Smiling.
• Firm handshake.
• Positioning of your shoulders.
• Eye contact.
• Tone of your voice.
• What you do with hands and feet.
• Enthusiasm you show when you meet.
• Lively shine in eyes.

All these factors and many more are helpful in creating good first impression which will go long way in helping you succeed in your goals

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A YouTube video – “5 tips To Make a Killer First Impression – Personality Development & English lessons by Niharika” gives some hints about making first good impression:


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Apr 132015
 

Be aware of your body language when you are in touch with other people, especially they can help or hinder your success. Pay attention to your expressions, gestures and tone of voice. People are drawn like ants to sugar with interpreting of wrong body language. Positive body language can make a big difference in your success.

Kind of positive body language examples you should consider in your conversation with others are:

• An enthusiastic tone of your voice.
• Positive eye contact
• Positioning of shoulders.
• Movement of hands and feet.
• Uncrossing of arms.
• Positioning of legs.
• Leaning towards the person who is speaking.

These hints should help you maintain a positive body language in your conversation and make the outcome of it very positive.

A YouTube video – “Body Language Do’s & Don’ts – Good Manners.” by Howcast, have some good hints about body language:

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Apr 122015
 

When dealing with other people, nobody likes surprises. People want to deal with persons based on their experience. Everyone wants to know in advance how you will behave under the similar circumstances. They want to know who they are dealing with and what kind of response they can expect. To be consistent you must be reliable and make sure your response does not depend upon your mood.

So to be likeable and increase your chances of succeeding in whatever you doing, I may suggest the following:

Be clear about your policy how you are going to deal with other people.
Be consistent and follow that policy to the letter.
• People should be able to gauze what they can expect from you regardless of who they are.
Be fair in dealing with the people.
• Make people feel that this is what they can expect and get in dealing with you regardless of your personal mood or circumstances.

It is my sincere opinion that if the people know that you are consistent and can expect certain response from regardless of fact what your mood, circumstances, or who you are dealing with, they will respect you, like you and will be willing to deal with you with confidence. That cements you success with those people.

A YouTube video – “Consistency & Flow – Motivational Video” – enumerates how consistency is cornerstone to your success:

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Apr 112015
 

When you speak with confidence, precise and friendly manner, people are more attentive and convincible by what you say than if you try to show them how important you are. All you need is to be considerate and friendly to win people and be likeable. People eventually become irresponsive to those who are desperate for attention. You need not have an extrovert personality to be liked by the people. People catch up very quickly as to what you are and who you are. They are more attracted to right attitude than how many people or what kind of people you know.

To get a sincere attention of the people here are my suggestion what you should do:

Don’t look desperate to get attention.
Be concise, friendly and considerate in what you are saying.
• When someone recognize you don’t sing your song to get more attention that comes out as a desperate attempt to get attention.
Give a sincere, deserving and openhearted credit to other people for your success.
Be genuine when you others credit in your success; people will catch on to your sincerity and will take you as a humble and appreciative personality. These are two cornerstone pillars on which will be based your likeability.

Once people start liking you based on your sincerity and genuine desire to serve them they will open to you. Then and only then your popularity, likeability and success will soar.

A YouTube video – “Ask Shallon: Are You Acting Desperate? How not to look CRAZY” by Shallon Lester explains how girl should not act desperate when trying to get attention of a guy:

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Apr 102015
 

No one likes the people with the preconceived ideas. People interact more openly with open minded people. No person will like a conversation with people who already formed an opinion without listening to whole conversation. If you don’t listen to them, why they should listen to you? This takes you nowhere in conversation.

This is my suggestion:

Be an open minded. It makes you more approachable and interesting to talk.
Don’t preconceive an opinion on the subject before listening and discerning on what others have to say.
• Learn to see the world through other people’s eyes.
• You don’t have to believe them.
• You don’t have to condone their behavior.
• It simply means that you delay your judgment long enough to fully understand what they are conveying.
Understand what is making them tick.
• That is the only way you can let them be what they are.
• Then you can deal with them as they are.

If you can bring yourself to understand them in that depth then only you can take the best benefit out of that discussion. So keep an open mind. That is what will help you succeed.

A YouTube video – “Judging others is Dangerous: Powerful Story – Video – Don’t Jump to Conclusions.” Gives good view on being judgmental:


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Apr 092015
 

Lot of people are so much focused that forget to listen what the other person is saying, instead they concentrated on what they are going to say next and what will be effect of what other person had said on them. They hear words loud and clear but they are not able to comprehend what is being said to them.

There is simple way to avoid all this – “ask questions.” People like to know that you are listening and clarification questions indicate to them that you are listening attentively. You will be amazed that how much appreciation you will gain by doing so. People will know that you care about their conversation and will respect you for it.

A good healthy conversation will help you to be a success magnet.

A YouTube video – “Entrepreneurial Selling: Art of Conversation” by Kaufman Founders School gives good basis of conversation:


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Apr 082015
 

No One likes fake people. People gravitate towards genuine people because they know they can trust them. If you don’t know anyone well enough, it is difficult to trust them or even like them. You have to know who they are and how they feel about the various issues in their life before you start liking and trust them. If you are not genuine in the way you conduct yourself it will be not be possible for others to like you or trust you.

Paying attention to what drives you and what makes you happy can project you as a likeable person. If you have to make choices so that people can like you, it will not be effective way to create trust.

A YouTube Video – “How To Build Trust – Build Trust.” By BigVision Shows Gives you some hints about creating trust:


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Apr 072015
 

When talking with other people it is very important to give one hundred percent attention to the conversation. Nothing turns you off more than someone receiving a text message or even a quick glance on the phone when they are in the middle of conversation with you. To get better results from the conversation you must provide your full attention to conversation at hand. Be in the present. Focus all you energy in conversation at hand. This way you can get most out of your conversation.

This is how successful people do:

Turn off your phone when you are in meeting or in conversation with anyone.
Be one hundred percent in the conversation.
Be in the present moment.
If you must take the phone or a message during conversation let the other party know in advance before the meeting that you have another pressing matter to deal at the same time and excuse yourself from the conversation if needed. That will be less offensive to others.
Immerse fully in conversation. It makes them more enjoyable and you can get most benefit out of them.

In current social media setting it is very easy to get lost in technology and get distracted from real issue at hand. The most important thing in the conversation is what other person is saying. So be a good listener. Don’t let anything take you away from it.

A YouTube video – “Can We Auto-correct Humanity?” tells how technology is distracting us from real conversation:


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Apr 062015
 

A guy with one red paperclip started doing bargains with other people. He traded red paper clip for a fish shaped pen, then sculpted door knob to fueled Coleman camp stove to Honda generator to instant party to a 2 person snow mobile to 2 person trip to British Columbia to a Cube Van to recording contract in Tokyo to spending a afternoon with Alice Cooper to kiss a motorized snow globe to role in Donna on Demand to a two-story farmhouse in Kipling, Saskatchewan. All this he did in one year span of time by crafting all these trades very ingeniously.

There are number of lessons to be learned from this story:

• To succeed in anything it does not matter how humble or small your beginning is.
• It pays to be persistent and stay in the path of success.
Money is not necessary for getting anything.
• It pays be creative and make other person feel that they need what you have.
• God or Universe is great, “You shall RECEIVE what you ASK.” Remember even your mom didn’t gave you food unless you asked when you were little.
Value is based on the perception of value in the eyes of beholder or person who desire certain thing.
One man’s trash may be a great treasure for other.
Being resourceful is more important than the resource itself.
Time is irrelevant; when you get into momentum success usually happens quickly.
Luck is created. You are not born lucky.
Where there is will, there is a way.
Universe brings circumstances, people and events in your path based on the vibrations you send out to it.

A YouTube video – “OneRedPaperClip ABC 20/20” by Ryan what a story on what you Can achieve if your mind is set on doing something:

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