Nov 262014
 

Lot of people is always complaining that they are not getting paid what they are worth. Complaining is not what is going to get them paid what they are worth. Bitching about the situation is not going to help. It only makes you look as a trouble maker or disrupter of the normal life at your work place.

• Try to understand and learn what else is happening at work place.
• If you are doing a part of the job, learn what else other people are doing.
Master the job other people are doing in addition to doing your job.
Become a go to person not only in your job.
• Offer yourself as a volunteer to take on newer responsibilities.
Become a go to person in all those newer functions.
• Soon you will see that you have become indispensible in all those areas.

Now since you have made this progress and helped your work place, people at the top will start to recognize your input in smooth running of the workplace and they will pay you even more than you are worth.
If they don’t I suggest let them know you are doing a fantastic job and take yourself out in the market. I am sure with work ethic like you learned above; you will be able to get better positions anywhere.

Here in this video here is example of going extra mile:

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Nov 252014
 

Once in a while you may not feel happy. There is nothing to worry about. You can become happy very quickly and here is how:

Let us start first with finding out what happens when you are happy:

• You may be humming tune of song you like.
• You feel a spring in your feet during walking.
• There is big smile on your face.
• You exuberating lot of enthusiasm.
• Your eyes look as if they are full of life.

Now you defined what you do when you are happy. Mind and human body so much connected that if you alter one the other will respond. So if you are not happy, change your physiology. Do the things you do when you are happy and you feelings will change to happiness.

So when you feel down, do this:

Hum a song.
Walk as if you have spring in feet.
• When you are talking to someone light up your eyes with excitement.
Wear a smile on your face.
Show an enthusiasm in everything you do.

Soon you will start feeling happy.

Here is another person’s view point on how to be happy:

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Nov 242014
 

Tony Robbins is giving away electronic copy of his e-book he wrote 20 years ago and he said it to pass it along so long it helps the people. Tony has touched millions of lives, inspired them all over the world. As time has passed, world have changed, but human emotions have not. I can send you that link if you send me an email saying you want that book free at makeurdreamsareality@gmail.com . It is the book he wrote 20 year ago. Everything it said then is still true. It will help you remove your limiting belief and make you take a leap forward to be extremely successful in your life. As Tony said it, I want to pay it forward by sending you the link so you can get it free. So please you are welcome to have it, just send me an e-mail at makeurdreamsareality@gmail.com

Nov 222014
 

So many times it happens to all of us. When you may be in the middle of writing something, you get stuck in thought process. It does not matter how hard you try, you are not able to bring forth next thought to write. Flow of thinking just gets stuck. You cannot recall anything from memory.

Here is a simple solution to your this situation:

• Put the paper and pen down.
• In case you are using computer, take hands off the keyboard. Stop looking at screen.
• Look up, look left and look right.
• This will take you out of think mode of brain and will bring into search mode.
• Search mode of the brain is where you want to be in to get unstuck in your thought process.

Human brain works like a computer. Every moment when you are awake your brain receives billions bits of data. It stores the data in groups with quick view of relationship based on previous experience. Thought keep flowing when data is easily retrievable. When it is not you get stuck. That is reason you first have to get out of think mode and change to search mode. Procedure explained above is simplest way to do that.

We also get stuck in negative thoughts more often. In our routine life we talk about negative things more often than positive things. We can change that also by talking about positive things consciously.
Alison Ledgerwood in the video “Getting stuck in the negatives (and how to get unstuck)” explains about this stucking situation in our lives and how to get it unstuck:

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Nov 212014
 

Are you looking for abundance in your life? Do you want to attract things in your life? It is wrong way to look for abundance to come into your existence. You don’t “attract” things, you create them. When you create, you activate the “Law of Attraction.”

In order to create anything in your life, you must:

• Know precisely what you want. Define your chief aim accurately.
Think about your aim consistently with passion. Be obsessively passionate about it. Give it intense focus to generate strong particle to activate it. This intense emotion focused on what you want will create what you desire.
• In Law of attraction you get back same vibrations back. Following your request universe will create circumstances to match your vibrations and you will create successfully what you need to fulfill your aim.

Importance of creating is clearly visible in video ahead:

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Nov 202014
 

It is a simple principle. If you want to be successful in anything, you need to master the thing. If your goal is to be a heart surgeon, you need to be mastering cardiology. It does not matter what your goal is you must master the know how to be successful in that field.

Most important thing in mastering is to be mastering the basic. Basics are the fundamental blocks on which whole building of mastery stands. You should build a strong base first. Then you can build as high as your base will be able to support. As stronger the base is built, the more height for the building can be achieved. Same way more you master the basic fundamentals of anything, more mastery of that field can be attained. Set up a solid and sound foundation if you want to be master of anything.

In the video Mike Rashid is giving his take about learning the basics if you want to be good athlete:

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Nov 192014
 

To achieve your goal quickly it must be in your sweet spot. That is what I was told by my mentor. What is sweet spot? Any goal which is big enough to excite you but at the same time small enough to achieve with a little additional effort. Remember it must also require a little extra umph. That goal is in your sweet spot. Having goals like these will set you up on the road to success. Every time you achieve goal like this you will be motivated to achieve more goals.

So to be successful you must start with small goals which are in your sweet spot. Doing so will catapult you into reaching your ultimate goal. You will enjoy the process. You will put in lot of work, but it will not feel like a work. Success will exude out of your every action. There will nothing that will be able to stop you.

Natalie Sisson gave this explanation for creating a sweet spot in business in video below:

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Nov 182014
 

Today I might look like that I am writing on an off topic, not in any way related to achieving success. But it is related to success principles I have been blogging about.

Have you observed while driving everyone hits the pot hole on the road even though all tried to avoid it consciously? When they trying to avoid hitting the pot hole on the road they are looking at it while driving. Your sub-conscious mind is following your eyes. Since you are looking at the pot hole it is taking you over the pot hole. It is taking you to the place where you are concentrating.

Now let us do an experiment. When you see a pot hole on the road and you don’t want to hit it. Do not look at the pot hole, instead look at the part of road which if you go over will avoid hitting the pot hole. As you did this your sub-conscious mind will take over and make you steer over to the right part of the road and you will not hit the pot hole. Try this neat little trick. It will work all the time.

Now what happened here? Your subconscious mind followed the directions of your conscious mind without you being aware of it. This happens all the time in our daily life. Lesson here is to be successful don’t think of things you want to avoid. Think of things which will help you achieve your goals and make you successful. This is one more pearl of wisdom to help you along the way.
Here is YouTube to help you see a positive twist to pothole scenario:

Now leaving the fun aside, as always if you need any further assistance please email me at makeurdreamsareality@gmail.com. I will be happy to respond. You may also leave a comment. I will always read and do my best to answer.

Nov 172014
 

In few posts that will follow this post, I will indulge myself into explaining the reason, behind why Law of attraction doesn’t work for lot of us. What we do wrong in realizing our dreams and how to correct it so that we can achieve them. I will explain one step per post till we go through all.

There is nothing wrong in having big dreams. All our lives we have been trained to worry about how. How we are going to achieve this? There is no way I can do this. Those are limiting factors in our thinking. What my family is going to say? There is friendly but negative voice of people surrounding us saying it is waste of time and energy. They will do their best to dissuade you from fulfilling your dreams. They will sound so good and caring. Lot of them might even be genuine and sincere about what they are saying. That is because of their own self limiting thinking.

Now here is alternative thinking on what you are facing here. Let us tackle it together. Consider dreaming and achieving are to different aspects and you need to separate them. When you are dreaming do not think about how you are going to make them a reality. If you can put how part of achieving on hold for a short little while and completely think what are you are dreaming. Imagine that you are in future and have already achieved that dream. See in your mind’s eye how your life became better because of the dream you realized. You will get excited about the dream and become motivated to take action towards completing it. This will bring thoughts in your mind and you will put forward the request to the universe through your vibrations of thought. Then universe will create circumstances, opportunities and bring to your life which will show you how part of the equation. Those things are not in your radar right now, but will appear at the right time.

To be continued ……….

Dream big just like the people in this video:

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Nov 162014
 

When we set goals for ourselves we tend to have such a high goals that it becomes very difficult to attain them. In one of earlier post I said the money is of no consideration when setting goals. That is true as for as learning to dream. It is also OK to have big dream as a final dream. But to achieve that big dream you have to build up momentum to motivate you to reach that BIG DREAM. That means you have to achieve small dreams first, just like steps on the ladder. Only way you can reach the upper most steps by going over each step one at a time. Every time you succeed in one small goal, it takes you closer to the top most steps. It becomes very easy if you follow the simple suggestion I have for you given below:

Consider that life is a game. You are a player as well as judge of the contestants. Because you are judge, you have authority to change the rules of the game. Set the bar low. Make rules in a way that you can easily win. Use this authority of yours when setting goals of your life. Make them such that you can win every time with ease. Every time you win, it makes your mind think that you are great achiever. Whatever you can make your mind believe, that is what you will become. So you will become a great achiever and will reach your ultimate goal very quickly. It does not matter how farfetched your final goal may seem at the current time.

Here is video stressing importance of setting small achievable goals:

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